Hey there, I'm Marie Forlejo and for the last 20 years I've helped millions of people

transform their businesses and lives.

If you're ready to make the difference you were born to make,

get ready because this is the Marie Forelio Podcast.

Today I want to teach you two magical words that can help you win any argument fast. Now when I say win, I don't mean

win in the traditional sense, where someone else admits defeat and they give you what you

want. I mean win in the real sense where you and the person

that you have a conflict with get things kind of neutralize and you find a sense of

peace and resolution and mutual respect.

Now, whether it's your spouse, who you actually love,

or some random clown biscuit online,

most of us have to deal with confrontation

from time to time, so we might as well get good at it. Now our natural instincts

or at least mine because I'm from Jersey are to get defensive and retaliate and

make the other person look like a moron.

Basically, tear them a new butt hole

the size of the Holland Tunnel.

Now, as great as that may feel in the moment,

it is clearly not the best way to handle things.

So, what are those two magical words?

Free donuts?

Oh, who farted?

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