#219: Getting Toddlers & Kids to Listen & Follow Directions
Parenting Beyond Discipline
Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist
4.4 • 631 Ratings
🗓️ 30 January 2021
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
Not many people are good at apologies. In this episode, Erin shares some personal experiences around apologies and how to teach and give proper apologies between both adults and children. Then Erin answers a question for a family who's really struggling with their preschooler listening and following direction and expectations. How do they fix the bad habits they've fallen into to get back on track with fewer power struggles and more peace and cooperation?
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| 0:00.0 | Hi everyone! So we are in the thick of winter here in Southern California. Most of you probably |
| 0:07.1 | think I'm the biggest wimp about the cold and I fully admit that I am. It's been in the 40s to |
| 0:12.8 | low 50s during the day with wind and rain and in the 30s overnight. So we're actually |
| 0:18.2 | even getting snow just 15 minutes away from here. So I'm already ready for spring. So we're actually even getting snow just 15 minutes away from here. So I'm already |
| 0:22.7 | ready for spring. So I'm excited about this episode today because I have got a couple of really |
| 0:28.9 | great topics. This first one, I thought was something really important to cover. I've covered it |
| 0:35.2 | before to some degree. But I really want to get into it, |
| 0:39.5 | break it down, and that is apologies. Not just tips and tools for helping our kids understand |
| 0:46.2 | and learn how to give a proper apology, but also adult to adult apologies and parent to child |
| 0:52.7 | apologies. Now, understanding when and how to apologize is |
| 0:58.0 | such an important relational skill. The person who taught me how to apologize is my parenting partner. |
| 1:05.6 | Something happened over the past month that I've been dealing with on a personal level around my |
| 1:09.9 | relationship with my mom. |
| 1:11.7 | And I've shared a bit about our issues before. I will be creating a separate special episode |
| 1:16.7 | for the podcast to share more about my childhood, why and how I finally came to the conclusion |
| 1:22.9 | that at 50 years old, it was time to cut ties with her. For anyone else who's dealt with either in childhood or adulthood, |
| 1:31.0 | relationships that were toxic on some level, |
| 1:33.4 | but you weren't sure how much you were willing to accept and tolerate |
| 1:36.5 | for the many reasons that we stick things out with people that we love, |
| 1:41.6 | I hope that episode, when I release it, |
| 1:44.1 | will help you heal your old wounds or gain |
| 1:46.2 | strength to finally say enough is enough. So that will be an episode that's not for everyone, |
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