218. Sex, Female Pleasure and Healthy Communication with Dr. Corey Allen
Heaven In Your Home
Francie Winslow
4.9 • 660 Ratings
🗓️ 21 April 2025
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
In this empowering episode, Francie welcomes Dr. Corey Allen, marriage and family therapist, sex therapist, and co-host of the long-running podcast Sexy Marriage Radio. Together, they unpack one of the most crucial, yet often misunderstood topics in Christian marriage: healthy sexual communication.
Dr. Corey brings over 13 years of experience helping couples thrive in intimacy, and today, he shares why reclaiming female sexual agency is vital to experiencing God’s full design for sex. From biological insights to emotional and spiritual reframes, this conversation is packed with wisdom, encouragement, and practical truth.
Whether you’re seeking deeper connection in your marriage, trying to undo cultural messages that minimized your pleasure, or simply want a healthier view of sex that honors both God and your body—this episode is for you.
Discussion Points
Why sex is designed for women too—not just to serve their husbands
The powerful anatomy of female pleasure and what it reveals about God’s heart
How to move from silence or shame into healing and healthy communication
Practical steps to grow intimacy, not just activity, in your marriage
A reframe of female sexuality as a God-given superpower
Resources Mentioned:
Sexy Marriage Radio – Dr. Corey Allen’s podcast and resources
Francie’s Pleasure Masterclass & Circle Mentorship (linked below)
Connect with Dr. Corey at smr.fm
Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper:
201 Course: Permission for Pleasure, Orgasm 101 - From Pre-Orgasmic to Orgasm
This 90-minute masterclass is a deep dive into embracing God’s good design for your body and the gift of intimacy in marriage. Francie Winslow offers practical, faith-based guidance on arousal, pleasure, and connection, equipping you with the knowledge and confidence to fully experience intimacy with joy and freedom. Whether you're navigating challenges or simply want to deepen your connection, this session is an invitation to step into intimacy that is naked, unashamed, and full of joy. Get Access Here.
101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well - Claiming a Healthy Vision for Married Sex
To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you’re newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You’ll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you’ve received over the years. Learn more here.
Get Connected Inside the Circle Group Mentorship
Keep learning and get direct access to Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the Circle, we talk practicals and get support to grow. Learn more here: The Circle
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| 0:00.0 | Hey everybody, it's Francie. Welcome back to the Heaven in Your Home podcast. Today we had the joy of |
| 0:11.5 | interviewing Dr. Corey Allen from Sexy Marriage Radio. Dr. Corey and his wife Pam hosts this podcast, |
| 0:19.5 | Sexy Marriage Radio, and it has been on the air |
| 0:21.6 | for over 13 years. |
| 0:23.8 | And so they have a lot of insight, |
| 0:25.8 | over 700 episodes available. |
| 0:28.7 | Dr. Corey is a marriage and family therapist |
| 0:31.6 | and he gave us some really great insights |
| 0:34.1 | to some of your very questions |
| 0:36.2 | that I have gotten from you guys over the years. So I asked |
| 0:39.7 | him the questions. He gave the answers. This would be a great episode to listen to with your spouse, |
| 0:45.4 | to grab a cup of coffee or listen into the car or listen individually and then chat over a walk. |
| 0:51.8 | But it was some really good good times really deep nuggets of |
| 0:56.0 | wisdom I think you're going to love what he has to say about women's pleasure and women's sexual |
| 1:01.6 | design because it lines up with everything that we talk about on this podcast but he gave some |
| 1:06.1 | really great counseling ideas to to get you going on the right foot with communication around your sex life. |
| 1:12.4 | So I hope that it encourages you today. We also did talk about differing desires in marriage and |
| 1:18.7 | even when things are hard like erectile dysfunction. Just things are hard sometimes. And I love |
| 1:24.6 | the ways that he framed the fact that everybody has sexual struggles. And it is up to us to |
| 1:30.8 | take the next step towards connection. And that's what the theme of this podcast was. So I hope you |
| 1:35.9 | enjoy today's conversation with Dr. Corey. All right, friends, we have a special guest. It is |
| 1:42.5 | Dr. Corey Allen. So thank you for being with us |
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