And just because you had a few nice dates with someone or you've been seeing someone for a few months and you see amazing qualities in them,

it doesn't mean they would be an amazing home forever, so that's an assumption.

And anyone who doesn't choose you isn't your home.

Hey, everyone. I just got done with a live session for my love life club members,

where I coach people live every month.

And one of my members asked a question that was, I think everyone's going to relate to this.

Let me ask you before I even dive into the question, have you ever had someone that you're so afraid of rocking the boat with

because you're worried about pushing them away that you don't have standards with them.

And the reason you're worried about pushing them away is because deep down you worry that you won't find someone better,

that this person has certain special things about them, things that make them very rare or unique or amazing

and it's making you feel like you can't afford to lose them.

That's the scarcity mindset.

In this moment between me and one of my members,

she brings up this exact issue and the answer I gave, I wanted to share with you today because

if you're suffering from this or suffer from this regularly,

this is going to change the way that you go into dating forever.

It's going to transform your ability to have a standard.

It's going to make you unafraid to lose someone and it's going to change your relationship with your own worth.

By the way, this weekend is the weekend of the virtual retreat.

It starts on Friday, it ends on Sunday and it is going to be an extraordinary event.

These do not come around very often.

So if you're not already signed up, go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to become a part of this.

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