And I don't think you've shifted that way. I don't think you've looked at love as self-less. Hey everybody welcome back to the

welcome back to the podcast thank you for listening wherever you're coming

from I appreciate you this is one of my favorite things to do to go

through your questions and just walk through them it takes really no preparation on my

end I'm literally just coming in here and opening up these emails and walking through them with

no notes or quotes in front of me as if we're just two friends riding in the truck. You say, hey man, could I run something by you?

And I talk through it. That means that I'm not always right. You know, I'm just giving you the best

advice that I would give a friend.

And sometimes it's just like a knee jerk response, right?

Because I'm not always, sometimes I'm not always thinking all the way through through I'm just like hey there's my first

here's my first response so take it as you will the email for this is

podcast at grangerSmith.com this is a new email that used to what it used to be. So

podcast at granger Smith.com is a new email. Shoot me over an email and

and try to make it about a phone length long.

If you make it too long, it gets more difficult to read on the podcast.

But let's jump right into these.

And there is no rhyme or reason today to what we're going to do.

Okay?

First question says, help, subject line, and the email says,

I'm 58 years old and no one loves me. I give and give but no one helps me when I need it.

That's the end of the email. It says sent from my iPad. So we've got an anonymous emailer here and 58 years old and there's just one simple plea.

It says I give and I give but no one helps me when I need it no one

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