214. The secret to love? Go SLOW ft. Therapist Moe Ari Brown

The Psychology of your 20s

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Mental Health, Self-improvement, Fitness, Education, Relationships, Science, Social Sciences, How To, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.9 • 1.3K Ratings

🗓️ 18 July 2024

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

We all want long lasting, passionate, meaningful love and in our 20s it can hard to figure out exactly how to find that. With so many 'rules' around what to do, pacing, when to become exclusive, when to say 'I love you', when to move in together, it seems the secret is to go slow and build emotional intimacy. In other words, embrace the power of the slow burn, the 'slowmance' and low pressure beginnings.

In this episode we are joined by Hinge's Love & Connection Expert, Moe Ari Brown as they discuss how to slow down and properly build a foundation for sustainable love, why we can often be overwhelmed by the need to speed things up and jump right in, ignoring intuition out of our fear of rejection, and where that can lead us. That and so (SO) much more. Listen now!

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm David Eagleman from the podcast Inner Cosmos, which recently hit the number one science
0:05.4	podcast in America.
0:06.8	I'm a neuroscientist at Stanford, and I've spent my career exploring the three-pound
0:11.6	universe in our heads.
0:13.0	Join me weekly to explore the relationship between your brain and your life
0:17.5	because the more we know about what's running under the hood,
0:21.0	better we can steer our lives.
0:23.4	Listen to Inner Cosmos with David Eagleman on the iHeartRadio app, Apple
0:27.0	Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
0:30.3	I'm Dr. Laurie Santos, host of the Happiness Lab podcast.
0:34.0	As the US elections approach, it can feel like we're angrier and more divided than ever.
0:39.0	But in a new hopeful season of my podcast, I'll share with the science really shows
0:45.2	that we're surprisingly more united than most people think. We all know
0:49.5	something is wrong in our culture, in our politics, and that we need to do better and that we can
0:55.0	be better.
0:56.0	Listen on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
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