213. Sex Fantasies: What Do They Say About Us? with Vanessa Marin

We Can Do Hard Things

Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

Relationships, Education, Self-improvement, Society & Culture

4.8 • 42.7K Ratings

🗓️ 25 May 2023

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin is back and we’re digging into: why we’re (sadly and ironically) proven to be less likely to try new things in the bedroom the longer we’ve been partnered; how to spice up your sex life when things get bland – including how to find out and explore your sexual fantasies; how not all orgasms (even for men!) are created equal; and the TikTok sex challenges we should probably pass on. For our previous conversations with Vanessa, check out: Episode 195 Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin and Episode 196 How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin. About Vanessa: Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin. Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve! Vanessa has been featured in various major publications and has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker. TW: @VMTherapy IG: @vanessaandxander

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0:00.0	Welcome back to we can do hard things today.
0:13.0	Okay.
0:14.0	So Abby's laughing already because.
0:17.0	Okay.
0:18.0	How do we set up this?
0:20.0	I, so we had Vanessa Marin on the pod for two episodes recently.
0:25.0	There were all about sex and the baby.
0:28.0	The pod squad had a big response to it.
0:31.0	And we did two because we ended up much to my chagrin in an actual like.
0:38.0	Sex therapy exercise where we had to.
0:42.0	Talk dirty to each other.
0:44.0	Did you have a vulnerability hangover?
0:46.0	Yes.
0:47.0	And so when we did those episodes, they were so awesome.
0:51.0	But we didn't get to this last category of things that Vanessa talks about in her book,
0:57.0	which is how to spice up your sex life when things have gotten a little bit bland.
1:03.0	And a big topic inside of this chapter is about fantasies.
1:11.0	Okay, sexual fantasies.
1:12.0	By the way, those two episodes are talking about episodes 195 and 196.
1:16.0	If you choose to go back and listen and just.
1:20.0	I'm not going to run in.
1:23.0	I just have to say before we get into it, I was so proud of all of you.
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