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Welcome back to Ghost. This week's question goes like this. Hi Jessica, I listened to

your Instagram live with housing works, youth clubhouse, and the topic of casual sex

and self acceptance was very timely for me. Recently, I've realized I tracked unavailable

partners because I fear intimacy. Specifically, I fear asking for what I need to feel safe

and secure to get sexual because I believe it's too much to ask for or that I wasn't

worth having my needs met. Thank you, childhood. I need emotional availability, regular communication

and reassurance. I will see you again. I wonder if I'm too much. I have trouble accepting

that I need these things in order to be intimate with someone, even if I don't necessarily

want a relationship with them. I resigned to the notion that I am not made for casual intimacy

and wonder how do I date? My question is, how can I accept this information about myself,

how would I date my needs and navigate the world of dating? Any insight is welcome and

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