212. Here's why you ALWAYS feel something "bad" is about to happen when things are going "TOO GOOD"

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Beatrice

Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 3 August 2023

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Tell me if this sounds familiar…

You've hit a high in your life, whether that's a business high, a relationship high, a money high, or something else. It feels great…

Except that it doesn't.

You can't stop looking over your shoulder, checking both ways before you move, waiting for the other shoe to drop at any moment. Things have been going too good, so something bad has to be coming next, right?

I've heard almost every single student and client experience this in one form or another. They're always waiting for the other shoe to drop when things start getting good.

"But Beatrice, it's true! Every time things get good, something bad comes along."

Does it? Or do you think you might be playing into a bit of self-fulling prophecy?

Let's explore where this sense of impending doom comes from…and how we unconsciously do everything we can to prove that sense right.

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Self-Love Fix Podcast. I'm your host, the Eagle Whisperer, aka Beatrice. Founder
0:13.4	of the Self-Trust Alchemy Program formerly known as Self-Love Overcoat Penancy, T-Addict,
0:19.6	and a Self-Trust Embodiment Coach teacher and mentor for deep, luxed bitches who aren't
0:24.7	afraid of the dark. I'm on a mission to redefine Self-Love, to redefine
0:29.4	everything that you think you have to fix about yourself. You're people pleasing,
0:33.8	codependency, your past relationship, and so much more so that you can
0:38.5	alchemize these aspects of yourself into deep, reality-bending levels of self-trust
0:44.0	and next-level self-acceptance. In this podcast, we don't believe you need fixing.
0:49.2	Here, the only thing we repair is the way you currently view Self-Love,
0:54.6	manifestation, alignment, and dating and relationships. Welcome to the dark side,
0:59.4	where we play in the realm of astrology, ego work, shadow work, virtuality,
1:04.2	mask and fem work, and so much more. Oh, and lots of laughs. Welcome to Self-Love, redefine.
1:11.3	Welcome to the Self-Love Fix. Hello, and welcome back to the Self-Love
1:17.6	Fix Podcast. My name is Beatrice, and I'm a perfume lover, and I'm also
1:23.7	your host. And this week, I have no idea why I talked about me being a perfume lover,
1:29.1	but I honestly, at this point, I self-identify as a perfume lover. That is who I am this week.
1:35.9	I have a really, really great episode plan for you, which you already know what it's about
1:41.2	based on the title, but yeah, I feel as though I've heard almost every single student and client tell
1:50.0	me in one form or another at some point, and this is what the episode is about, that they fear
1:56.8	something bad will happen. You know, once things start getting good, it's like they're waiting for
2:02.7	the other shoe to drop. That internal feeling of like, you know, it's like you're enjoying yourself,
2:08.9	you're having a good time, and you're like, what do I have to worry about? Your brain is almost
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