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Relationship Advice

212: Avoiding Newlywed and Long Term Relationship Pitfalls

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.4 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 21 August 2019

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Relationships can be relatively easy when you're in the early stages and all the happy chemicals are flowing. However, things can get quite difficult as time rolls on. Listen to today's show to learn the conversations you need to have to set your new marriage or long term relationship up for success. In this episode, we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to communicate about finances, sex and work-life balance for long term relationship success The importance of discussing your relationship expectations Warning signs that early relationship issues can carry into the long term Maintaining a couple identity and personal identity in your relationship How to communicate around what you like in bed and frequency of sexual relations And much more! Jenn Belus has a PhD in Clinical Psychology from the University of North Carolina. Both her research and clinical work has focused on understanding healthy intimate relationships and working with couples when one or both partners is struggling with mental or physical health problems. She is currently a postdoctoral fellow at the University of Maryland. Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/212 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Join our 5 Day Couples Appreciation Challenge here: idopodcast.com/appreciation Do you want to hear more on this topic? Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Zola: Zola is the wedding company that will do anything for love. They are reinventing the wedding planning and registry experience to make the happiest moment in our couples’ lives even happier. From engagement to wedding and decorating your first home, Zola is there, combining compassionate customer service with modern tools and technology. All in the service of love. To start your free wedding website or registry on Zola, go to ZOLA.com/ido. Eyeconic: Where you can shop name brand glasses, contacts and sunglasses for the best possible price. Get free shipping and returns, price matching and a complimentary frame adjustment by visiting Eyeconic.com/IDO. Use the code IDO to get 10% off your entire order. Eyeconic is looking out for your eyes! Spark My Relationship Course: For a limited time, get access to our bonus, Mastering Money Talk In Your Marriage! Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Take me to the place in the show to the show.

1:00.0

Hey guys, welcome to the show. Thanks for tuning in for today's show where we talk about the common challenges that newlywed couples face,

1:08.5

but even if you're not a newlywed, these are things that you need to address and Dr. Jen Bellis walks us through the three most

1:17.3

common things to look for especially if you're a newlywed and how to prevent them how to deal with these challenges.

1:26.2

And Jen is a clinical psychologist from the University of North Carolina,

1:31.6

and she does research and clinical work that focuses on

1:35.2

understanding healthy intimate relationships and working with couples

1:40.1

when one or both partners is struggling with mental or physical health problems.

1:46.0

And in the episode we have a lot of references to other episodes as well as links to other guides and we will be sure to add

1:55.4

those into the show notes on our website and in the podcast description so that

1:59.2

you can access all those great free resources and before we continue on to the episode,

2:05.3

Chase and I just wanted to briefly talk

2:08.1

about a situation, I guess you could say.

2:12.2

And there have been a couple of reviews

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