#211 - The Perfect Problem: Learning to Be Kind To Yourself When You Fail
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🗓️ 29 July 2019
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
Barbell Logic has long attracted thinkers, strivers, and a fair number of Type A personalities. "Logic" is in the name, of course, and barbell training in particular demands a sort of consistency and attention to detail that is well-suited to the driven person. Yet these same people often struggle with another problem -- the problem of perfectionism -- which the barbell community doesn't exactly help.
We're barbell nerds. We love physics, programming, and the sundry little details of technique that help us optimize our training. These are the stepping stones on the path to strength, but for some they can be more of a trip hazard. The pursuit of excellence can become the pursuit of perfection, and when they inevitably fall short disappointment pervades. Perfectionism only robs us of the satisfaction of self-improvement and obscures the view of long-term progress; and, as we know, strength training is playing the long game.
Or, as Ralph Waldo Emerson put it more eloquently in his essay Self-Reliance:
"If our young men miscarry in their first enterprises, they lose all heart. If the young merchant fails, men say he is ruined. If the finest genius studies at one of our colleges, and is not installed in an office within one year afterwards in the cities or suburbs of Boston or New York, it seems to his friends and to himself that he is right in being disheartened, and in complaining the rest of his life. A sturdy lad from New Hampshire or Vermont, who in turn tries all the professions, who teams it, farms it, peddles, keeps a school, preaches, edits a newspaper, goes to Congress, buys a township, and so forth, in successive years, and always, like a cat, falls on his feet, is worth a hundred of these city dolls. He walks abreast with his days, and feels no shame in not 'studying a profession,' for he does not postpone his life, but lives already. He has not one chance, but a hundred chances."
Also, listen to Brett's recent podcast with legendary boxing trainer Teddy Atlas on his idea of what it means to be a man: https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/teddy-atlas-boxing-trainer-interview/
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| 0:00.0 | Hey listeners this is normally when we would talk about a holiday sale or how |
| 0:07.4 | now is the right time to start with online coaching because of how much money |
| 0:10.5 | you can save however as I met with our marketing team |
| 0:13.8 | earlier this month to discuss promotional ideas, |
| 0:16.5 | we found ourselves focusing on the ideal outcomes |
| 0:19.4 | for people who want to work with a coach. |
| 0:21.4 | And that call to mind how many of our clients got into |
| 0:24.4 | this for the form corrections and ended up making real life |
| 0:28.1 | transformations through strength training. We realized that the ideal Barbel logic client is not afraid of hard work. |
| 0:35.0 | They don't just have goals, they are driven by continual self-improvement. |
| 0:39.4 | They pursue strength because they care deeply about the people who they love who depend on them. |
| 0:44.8 | We know that price is always a consideration when it comes to deciding to sign up for something. |
| 0:50.0 | But our successful clients tell us that in addition to carefully deciding where to invest their money, |
| 0:55.2 | they're also very intentional about how they invest their time. |
| 0:58.8 | And when you care about your time that much, there is fear that you could waste your time and not see the results you want. |
| 1:04.4 | If any of this sounds like you I'm here to make you a promise. You give us six months |
| 1:09.7 | of two to four workouts a week and if you don't see changes in your strength or form |
| 1:14.5 | we will give you all of your money back that's all six months the worst case |
| 1:19.3 | scenario is it ends up costing you nothing The best case scenario is you invest in yourself |
| 1:24.7 | and you get exactly what you want out of your training. The only risk is a bet on |
| 1:28.8 | yourself. It's time to place that bet and put your money where your goals are. |
| 1:34.0 | Get matched with your coach now at barbell logic.com. |
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