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Hello everybody welcome to the Marriage Be Hard podcast I am Melissa.

I'm Kevin and on this podcast which was spawned from our New York Times Best Seller book by the same name.

Marriage be hard and we talk about love relationships and all of the things.

We talk to some of our favorite couples and people that we've known or have

known or just met on the interwebs and today we have Elliot and Larissa Nelson all the way.

Where are you guys at?

Raleigh, North Carolina.

In North Carolina, come on and raise it.

The greatest city of all time.

Raleigh?

Raleigh the greatest city of all time.

I'm a Raleigh boy though, so I'm...

I'm about to say you have to be born and raised at a belief.

I have nothing against

Raleigh I just haven't heard anybody who wasn't from Raleigh say that great

greatest city of the world tell us why it's number one it's number one oh is this like a

statistics ranking that you've best city in the world ranking you pool?

Yeah, so there's been a lot of different reports that have come up like number one for African American business small business

number one for oh this is quite a viable that's what I'm saying he's read a list yeah

it's a googlifiable fact.

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