Welcome to the Paul Tripp podcast, where pastor and bestselling author Dr. Paul David Tripp

connects the transforming power of Jesus Christ to everyday life. Think about your life for a minute.

There's arguably no ability you rely upon more than your ability to communicate.

Think of how magical it is for a parent when their child says his or her first words.

In today's episode, we'll continue through this old radio series on communication,

and today, Paul will teach about the importance of our talk.

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Now here's Paul addressing our talk. I want you to give me your attention for a moment because I want you to take

a communication quiz with me. Now, don't be afraid. It's not a pass-fail test, but I think it can

help you evaluate this world of talk that we have been talking about. I'm going to ask you several questions for your

evaluation. Does your talk with others lead to problem solving? Does your talk with others have a

me against them or a stand-together posture to it? Do your words encourage others to be open and honest about their true thoughts and

feelings? Are you approachable and teachable or defensive and self-protective when talking to others?

Is your communication healthy in its relationship to how it structures the relationships in your life?

Does your talk encourage others and stimulate them to grow?

Do you talk to others in order to develop relationships with them,

or do you only talk to solve problems in times of trouble?

Do you speak words of confession when necessary and words of forgiveness when needed? Do your words reflect a willingness to serve others or a demand

that you be served? As you face struggles in your talk, do you feel all alone, misunderstood,

hopeless and discouraged, or have you sought and found God's help? As you have answered these

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