My comedy special is out now J.F. comedy special.com. The link is in the show notes. Pay what you want to get full access right now, right this minute. You can start watching it. It will come out on YouTube and be available to the

public in July, but this gives you early access and

again that link is in the show notes and I am thrilled I am thrilled for you guys to

see it be sure and tell me what you think. The topic for today is, you will not believe this, but I am now

a cheer mom. Me. Me, I'm a cheer mom. that is so funny to everyone who knows me I was goth in high school you know I

cheered for skulls and death and like goth music and like I'd the idea of me being a cheer mom and I have my

kids were laughing so hard at this when they saw this on the calendar for this weekend I am

going to a cheer mom social and they told everyone to bring a homemade snack for us to share. So we need to, I'm bringing

snacks to the cheer mom social. This is so funny to me and so what this episode is about it's actually not about shear or even being a mom

What it is about is how we don't know

What will make us happy in life.

Your biggest problem is that you think you know what will make you happy.

People are like, I'm miserable because I didn't achieve my goals.

I think a lot of you are miserable because you did achieve your goals.

They were just the wrong goals.

You don't know what will actually make you happy.

And that's one of the biggest mistakes that I made

when I was younger.

I thought I knew myself. I thought I knew what kind of lifestyle would

really bless me and I was wrong about all of it.

So how do you have a life that is fulfilling and it's where you need to be

when you don't know yourself and you don't know what you want?

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