205. Meeting Hate with Kindness: Matthew Stevenson’s Journey of Radical Welcome
Spiritually Hungry
Monica Berg and Michael Berg
4.8 • 617 Ratings
🗓️ 25 February 2025
⏱️ 49 minutes
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Summary
What happens when you completely disagree with someone’s beliefs but still choose to show them human dignity? In this episode of Spiritually Hungry we talk to Matthew Stevenson, a Jewish student who invited Derek Black, once a rising leader in the white nationalist movement, to his weekly Shabbat dinners. Instead of debating or condemning Derek, Matthew offered connection—an approach that, over time, played a crucial role in Derek questioning and ultimately rejecting white nationalism. Tune in to hear how a simple act of compassion helped transform a life.
Further Reading:
Rising Out of Hatred by Eli Saslow
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| 0:00.0 | Like in the movie, Pay It Forward, everyone is sort of being a beacon of light as they get better and improve, and that goes on. |
| 0:16.0 | And I think it's the same thing here where you've seen someone whose life was in some ways |
| 0:23.0 | the darkest you could think about in terms of the kind of things that he was hoarding and |
| 0:27.7 | preaching. |
| 0:28.7 | And now it's completely turned around. |
| 0:31.4 | So instead of being a tornado of chaos, it's really a beacon of light. |
| 0:40.5 | Welcome to spiritually hungry. |
| 0:42.8 | We are very excited today to have a special guest and friend, Matthew Stevenson. |
| 0:48.8 | And I want to ask our listeners, would you invite a white supremacist to your family dinner or a dinner |
| 0:58.9 | party at your house? Think about that long and hard, probably not for most. Yet that is what, |
| 1:07.3 | I don't want to label you, but I would say Kabbalah student, among many other things, Matthew did. |
| 1:12.8 | And it had a profound effect on his guest, who was the heir to the white nationalist movement and godson of David Duke, which makes this story even more interested. |
| 1:22.3 | So we're very excited to introduce Matthew and here are a firsthand account of how the power of a simple act of kindness |
| 1:29.2 | can make a profound difference. |
| 1:31.8 | And we've had the opportunity to sit with you before and discuss this. |
| 1:36.5 | And now we've invited you on our podcast to do it again. |
| 1:39.7 | Welcome. |
| 1:40.2 | Thank you so much for having me. |
| 1:42.3 | So let's dig right in. |
| 1:44.8 | Tell us how you met his Derek Black and what your first impression was. |
| 1:51.1 | And what really gave you the impetus to reach out to him and invite him not just to a dinner party, but it was a Shabbat dinner, right? |
| 1:58.6 | Yes. |
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