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Here is here's the topic of today's fine episode.

If you complain about midlife,

you are going to have a mid life.

Listen, these people are like, half of my life is behind me. I have less than half of my life yet. How do you know you're not going to die tomorrow?

Is God giving these people crystal balls

that they know for sure that they are going to live to age 80?

I don't know that.

I don't know that at all.'s wild to me that people act like they know how long they're going to live

you might have hit midlife at age 22 you never know the secret is no it's a happy that's a happy thought. Okay. It is because look it's I'm not trying to be depressing by saying you might die tomorrow. This is a happy thought. It's about saying live in the moment the way that you are meant to live in the moment right now and stop worrying about whether you have this amount of time left or that

amount of time left because you just don't know.

And so the secret is to live each day fully and stop calculating where you are on your imaginary life

timeline. This is what I never refer to midlife. I don't refer to myself as middle-aged. I don't know I mean I just had a blood cloth that almost took me out. I might I might be at the end I mean

We have we have really seen that recently that was you know that was real touch and go there for a

minute but I'm serious I don't mean that is a depressing thought I mean it that's

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