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How to Be Awesome at Your Job

2025 GREATS: 1038: Getting What You Need from Your Boss through Managing Up with Melody Wilding

How to Be Awesome at Your Job

How to be Awesome at Your Job

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4.51.1K Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2025

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Melody Wilding breaks down the crucial conversations to have with your boss to improve your work life. 


— YOU’LL LEARN — 

1) How to differentiate yourself with one conversation 

2) How to build your pushback power 

3) The easiest way to improve your visibility 


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— ABOUT MELODY — 

Melody Wilding is a professor of human behavior at Hunter College and author of Managing Up. She was recently named one of Insider’s “most innovative career coaches.” Her background as a therapist and emotions researcher informs her unique approach, weaving evidence-based neuroscience and psychology with professional development. Her previous book is Trust Yourself. 

• Book: Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge 

• Website: ManagingUp.com 


— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — 

• Book: Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen 

• Book: Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well by Douglas Stone and Sheila Heen 


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0:00.0

We're continuing our March to 2026 with some of the finest episodes of 2025 now with

0:06.1

Melody Wilding's pro tips on getting what you need from your boss through managing up.

0:10.7

Melody shares an approach that is so simple and so powerful and yet so overlooked.

0:17.4

I hope you love it.

0:26.6

Thank you. looked. I hope you love it. I highly recommend that you start all of your one-on-ones with your manager with wins,

0:32.3

not just dive into status updates of, oh, here's where this project is. Here's where this is.

0:38.3

This is what's coming up.

0:39.8

Utilize that time to show your manager.

0:42.5

Here's the outcome, the result.

0:44.7

Here's also visibility into how I thought about solving a problem,

0:48.5

the considerations that I made or the people I talked to.

0:52.5

And all of that gives them more insight into you operating at a more

0:57.1

strategic, perhaps even higher level. And it also gives them information that they need to run up

1:04.7

their own chain of command. That's Melody Wilding. She's an award-winning executive coach with a background as a therapist and emotions researcher.

1:19.1

She's also the author of Managing Up, how to get what you need from the people in charge.

1:23.1

So you'll learn one, how to differentiate yourself with one conversation. Two, how to build your pushback power.

1:29.4

And three, the easiest way to improve your visibility.

1:32.4

And if you want a quick summary write-up of these actionable takeaways,

1:35.4

I recommend you sign up for the free gold nugget email newsletter,

1:38.1

founder, awesome at your job.com.

1:40.1

I'm Pete McItis.

1:41.1

This is How to Be Awesome at Your Job.

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