#202: How to Find Love at Every Size with Krista Niles, Couples Therapist & Plus-Size Dating Coach
Food Psych Podcast with Christy Harrison
Christy Harrison, MPH, RD, CEDS
4.7 • 3.3K Ratings
🗓️ 15 July 2019
⏱️ 91 minutes
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Summary
Couples therapist and plus-size dating coach Krista Niles joins us to discuss statistics and misconceptions about body size and romantic relationships, how to navigate dating after being in a relationship with someone who says cruel things about your body, great strategies for creating a dating profile, what to do if you’re struggling to find a therapist, and so much more! Plus, Christy answers a listener question about how to cope when you’re surrounded by people who buy in to diet culture.
Krista Niles, couples therapist and dating coach, created the Curvy Cupid Course in 2016 to help women of all sizes start writing their love stories. Krista is a strong believer in the transformative power of love, and experienced firsthand the stuckness, discouragement, and hopelessness that can accompany dating as a plus-she woman. Through the Curvy Cupid Course, she teaches a step-by-step intentional approach to dating that encourages perseverance and nurtures confidence skills -- even within a deeply flawed system of fatphobia and poorly-designed dating apps. Find her online at CurvyCupidCourse.com.
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| 0:00.0 | This episode of Food Psych is brought to you by my online course Intuitive Eating Fundamentals. |
| 0:04.6 | If you're ready to break free from diet culture and reclaim the life it stole from you, |
| 0:08.9 | learn more and sign up at christieherison.com slash course. That's christieherison.com slash course. |
| 0:15.9 | Welcome to Food Psych, a podcast about intuitive eating, health at every size, body liberation, |
| 0:21.6 | and taking down diet culture. I'm your host Christy Harrison and I'm an anti-diet |
| 0:26.4 | registered dietitian, certified intuitive eating counselor, and author of the forthcoming book, |
| 0:31.6 | Anti-diet, reclaim your time, money, well-being, and happiness through intuitive eating, |
| 0:36.9 | which is now available for pre-order. Join me here every week as I talk with interesting people |
| 0:41.9 | from all walks of life about their relationships with food and their bodies. |
| 0:56.8 | Hey there, welcome to episode 202 of Food Psych. I'm your host Christy Harrison, and today I'm |
| 1:16.6 | talking with Christa Niles, a plus-sized dating coach, and couples therapist. We talked about how |
| 1:22.0 | to navigate dating and relationships when you're in a larger body or healing your relationship with |
| 1:26.4 | food, what to do if you're weight-stigmatized by a partner, what the research really says about |
| 1:32.1 | cis-headero men's preferences for body size, and why it's a lot more hopeful than you might think, |
| 1:37.2 | or then even Christa originally said in her work, some of the differences that Christa |
| 1:42.4 | experienced between being in straight relationships versus queer relationships, and so much more, |
| 1:47.7 | it's a great conversation and I can't wait to share it with you in just a moment. But first, |
| 1:51.8 | I'll answer this week's listener question, which is from a listener with initials NV, who writes, |
| 1:56.7 | I've gotten to the place in my life where I'm trying to be very intentional about body kindness. |
| 2:01.4 | After a lifetime of culturally inherited criticisms about my curvy and ever-changing body, |
| 2:06.4 | I finally realized the immense shame I was carrying and have been working through these challenges |
| 2:10.7 | with a counselor. When I'm with my husband, my friends, etc., I typically feel great. The issue is |
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