(2016/12/09) How to debate friends and influence people
Best of the Left - Leftist Perspectives on Progressive Politics, News, Culture, Economics and Democracy
Jay Tomlinson
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🗓️ 9 December 2016
⏱️ 78 minutes
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Summary
Edition #1063
Today we look at some of the underlying issues that undercuts our ability to effectively debate and explore ways to use this knowledge to improve our communication skills
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Show Notes
Ch. 1: Opening Theme: A Fond Farewell - From a Basement On the Hill
Ch. 2: Act 1: How to argue based on the morals of your debating partner Part 1 - You are not so smart - Air Date 11-4-16
Ch. 3: Song 1: Debate - Wait Until Dusk
Ch. 4: Act 2: Jonathan Haidt: The moral roots of liberals and conservatives - TEDTalks - Air Date 9-18-08
Ch. 5: Song 2: Truth - Vaughan Penn
Ch. 6: Act 3: Change my view - You are not so smart - Air Date 10-9-16
Ch. 7: Song 3: The Debate Is Over (If You Want It) - Anti-Flag
Ch. 8: Act 4: The importance of emotionally appealing to voters - @BillMoyersHQ in Conversation - Air Date 4-15-16
Ch. 9: Song 4: When Anger Shows - Editors
Ch. 10: Act 5: How to argue based on the morals of your debating partner Part 2 - You are not so smart - Air Date 11-4-16
Voicemails
Ch. 11: In response to the discussion about college and work - Justin from Indiana
Ch. 12: Explaining jokes about Trump's small hands - Colin from Cleveland, OH
Ch. 13: College isn't just for work, it's for life - Eric from Paris, France
Voicemail Music: Loud Pipes - Classics
Ch. 14: Final comments with a call for help creating a political translation dictionary
Closing Music: Here We Are - Everyone's in Everyone
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| 0:00.0 | You can't just go charging in saying you're wrong and I'm right. |
| 0:03.6 | Because as we just heard, everybody thinks they are right. |
| 0:07.3 | This program is made possible by the members and donors to the show. |
| 0:12.3 | To support the work we do and get members only bonus content, please visit the Contribute |
| 0:16.3 | tab at bestofleft.com. |
| 0:18.1 | Now, welcome to the award-winning Best of the Left podcast with Clips Today from the |
| 0:22.3 | You Are Not So Smart Podcast, a TED Talk by Jonathan Hate, and Bill Moyer's in Conversation. |
| 0:30.4 | We are all arguing, we're all bickering, we're all trying to get people to either see things |
| 0:34.8 | our way or change their mind about the way they see things. |
| 0:38.8 | Sometimes this is directed at policies or directed at courses of action that we think that should |
| 0:45.7 | be taken either by our institutions or by people who are in our friends and family. |
| 0:50.2 | Or sometimes it's just, you know, it can be as simple as saying no, the new Star Wars movie was |
| 0:55.3 | awesome. I think there's wine. You lay it out. |
| 0:57.6 | And when we try to argue with other people, we try to make a case for why they are wrong |
| 1:03.1 | and we are right, you suggest in your study that we do something sort of intuitively that just |
| 1:12.5 | doesn't work. And that was in, you're both of your hypothesis, both hypotheses in your study, |
| 1:20.2 | sort of lay this out. So if you could, we're going to walk our way through your research here. |
| 1:24.3 | What did you hypothesize upfront about the way we argue? |
| 1:28.4 | Sure. Yeah. So one of our intuitions going into this research is that this idea of the moral |
| 1:35.2 | empathy gap probably presents a barrier to political persuasion. So if it's the case, |
| 1:42.6 | in which we know it is the case, that liberals and conservatives tend to hold different moral values |
| 1:47.7 | and that moral values tend to blind people to one another's perspectives, then this might help |
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