201-Why he's DESPERATE for your intimacy
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 14 February 2019
⏱️ 58 minutes
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Summary
I get so many emails from husbands. I want to send a message to their wives...the wife I used to be. I was a wife who saw sex as
- Dirty
- Wrong
- Ungodly
- Scary
- He was sinning for wanting it
- Too much work
- I didn't like it / it hurt / I didn't know what to do
- I don't have time
- I don't have energy
- What's in it for me?
- He's way too interested in sex
And so I avoided it and got resentful that the things I was doing wasn't appreciated. He kept asking me to learn more... and I got angrier.
Well God has changed my heart on this. I have discovered that God made my husband's member, and I am his wife. It is my privilege to be a part of intimacy with him. I am his only means of receiving this vital fulfillment righteously.
I believe this podcast will bring you closer to God. If you're anything like I was, I wish I had known this even before I got married. If I could only understand what sex meant to him. If I could only understand God's purposes for it.
I pray this would be something husbands can give to their wives (when she's ready---listen and practice these 3 episodes: Encourage Your Wife's Sexuality (How A Husband Can Help His Wife Be More Into Sex) 156, 156/157, 157 first).
Podcasts I mention:
- 132-S: The Most Important Piece To Amazing Intimacy with Belah Rose
- 144-S: The Discipline of "No" with Belah Rose
- Encourage Your Wife's Sexuality (How A Husband Can Help His Wife Be More Into Sex) 156, 156/157, 157
Praying for you and your marriage,
Belah
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| 0:00.0 | Hi there and welcome. I hope that you are doing well. I just want to be just so grateful that you |
| 0:07.0 | took a moment to allow me to be part of your day today. I'm sure you're busy doing different |
| 0:12.4 | things and I know you have lots of priorities, but I am so grateful that you chose to be with me. |
| 0:18.8 | I will say that by God's grace, this podcast was actually awarded |
| 0:22.8 | one of the top 30 relationship podcasts on the net. So you are well, you're in good company if you're |
| 0:32.1 | listening, though you might be by yourself. By God's grace, there are a lot of others that are also listening. |
| 0:40.2 | I will share that I am, you know, doing, delight your marriage full time now, again, thank God. |
| 0:49.8 | But it means that, you know, I'm working with a lot of women coaching them one-on-one, |
| 0:53.8 | and that's where I get to do the real deep work of helping women transform their marriages, |
| 0:59.3 | their lives, their kids, what ultimately, you know, affects ministries and their workplaces |
| 1:05.4 | and their communities and society as a whole. |
| 1:08.4 | So that's really so, so deeply important to me. And so that means, |
| 1:15.6 | you know, sometimes I'm not able to get out the podcast on the right day that I try to do Tuesday. |
| 1:21.0 | So please forgive me for being a little bit off on my timing there. as well as this podcast episode is actually something |
| 1:31.0 | that I recorded previously and was already posted under another name, but the content is |
| 1:38.4 | so valuable and I've gotten such great feedback from others that I think it's worth posting |
| 1:43.9 | it again and allowing you all to |
| 1:45.6 | listen to it again. So I hope that you enjoy and it blesses you and it encourages you today. |
| 1:53.7 | Thank you so much for listening. I'll have a fresh new episode. I've already recorded it. It'll be |
| 1:58.0 | out on time next week. God bless you. And we'll talk soon. |
| 2:05.1 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage Podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and |
| 2:10.5 | inspiring wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage. |
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