What does it mean if you say that your husband is the man of the house? This is kind of a part to the gender roles discussion that we talked about in,

I think it was the episode before last in episode 198. What does that mean if you believe that there are differences between the

genders you want to honor your femininity or you know for my male

listeners honor your masculinity or your femininity. We are an open-minded whatever listen whatever you want to do I don't care

For it so for you know the small percentage of my listeners who are moms who are women as we know this

podcast is mostly listened to by like 22 23 year old men Marines you know things like

that but for for those of you who are listeners who are women

so what does that mean to believe that it means something and it maybe even means

something really important and sacred to be a woman to be a

mother to be a wife all of that but also to be a girl boss you know I'm not

like I'm not going to have the foundation of my life be

podcast bro fetish theology that these guys who sit on their podcasts, always religious podcasts.

These, it's, and they're like concocting this worldview that is not how this faith is

practiced like anywhere else on earth, but they're just, you know, making it up with their fellow podcast bros and then they posit it as if they are speaking in universal infallible truth when the

worldview that they propose really was only possible in the past hundred or in 150 years or so.

So it's, so on the one hand, we want to reject that.

We're not, we're not going to do the podcast bro fetish lifestyle when it comes to gender

rules but we also aren't going to go the you know extreme secular feminist

harpy role either where it's like I keep my man under my thumb he says yes

ma'am or I pick him up by one hand and I throw him through a wall like we're not doing

that either so how do you balance those things?

And I will tell you as someone who has been married 20 years now and I've actually I've

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