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The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast

1KHO 576: How To Get Good at Joy When You Don’t Like Your Likable Life | Rachel Awtrey, Love Your Life

The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast

Ginny Yurich

Parenting, Kids & Family

4.91.8K Ratings

🗓️ 18 September 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

What if joy isn’t a mood but a muscle? In this heartfelt, fast-moving conversation, Rachel Awtrey shares how she learned to “nod to hard things without bowing to them" from cayenne-in-the-chili nights and Lego landmines to job loss and grief. She unpacks three kinds of hard days (typical interruptions, long tough seasons, and true tragedies), why we often compare ourselves to an ideal version of ourselves, and how asking for help actually forges your strongest friendships. Along the way, we talk simple practices that change the temperature of your home: taking more meals outside and counting those hours toward the 1000 Hours Outside Challenge, short walks, grounding, ice-rolling for a quick nervous-system reset, and the underrated experience of adult play. If your life is technically “likable” but doesn’t feel that way right now, this episode is your permission slip to make some small changes. Grab Rachel’s new book, Love Your Life, Even When You Don’t Like It All the Time , check out her show, Real Talk with Rachel Awtrey, and say hi to her on Instagram (@rachelawtrey). A huge thank you to our sponsors! Check them ALL out below: Select Quote: Head to www.selectquote.com/1000hours to learn more. BetterHelp: Visit www.BetterHelp.com/1000HOURS today to get 10% off your first month. Quince - Visit www.quince.com/outside and get free shipping and 365 day returns NIV Application Bible - visit www.NIVapplicationbible.com if you’re looking to grow in your understanding of Scripture and make it real in your daily life. Capstone Wellness - For over 24 years, Capstone has helped thousands of families on their path to healing. Learn more at capstonewellness.com/1000hours NurtureLife - Head to NurtureLife.com/1000HOURS55 and use code 1000HOURS55 for 55% off your first order PLUS free shipping. Wayfair - Get organized, refreshed, and back to routine for way less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Earthley - Use the code 1000hours to get 10% off your next purchase at www.earthley.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the 1000 Hours Outside podcast. My name is Jenny Eridge. I am the founder of 1,000

0:05.7

hours outside and I have a new friend here today. Rachel Autry, welcome. Thank you so much for having me.

0:11.3

I don't know if you know this. This is very full circle, very cool, but we have done the 1,000

0:15.8

hour challenge, a thousand hour outside challenge. That is full circle. I know.

0:21.2

I love that.

0:21.8

And you talk a lot about nature in your book. Actually, you were talking about taking your meals outside. And I was like, that's my type of woman. That's what we do. When at first I was like, a thousand hours outside, dead gum. Like that's so much. And then I started thinking about it. And I was like, I think I maybe need to give myself a bit more credit.

0:40.0

We do do picnics a lot, right? Like we do go on walks a lot. Like those kinds of things, they help and they add up so quickly. So now we're huge fans of everything that you're doing. This is so fun. That's incredible. I really noticed how many nature references were in your book. It's a new book. It's called Love Your Life, even when you don't like it all the time.

0:57.8

It came out new book. It's called Love Your Life, Even When You Don't Like It All The Time, It Came out in August, A Realistic Guide to Unlocking Joy in Life's Messy, Mundane, and magnificent moments. And you talked about getting out for your walks, and you talked about eating outside. And those things do add up. And a thousand hours, people say that so much, Rachel. It seems like so much time.

1:12.1

But up until the 90s, it was the normal amount of time. Because kids played outside. You know,

1:18.1

they walked to school. They had long recess. They had a little bit of time in the afternoon.

1:21.4

They played outside on the weekends. That's kind of what it was. And so just by making some of

1:26.1

those small changes like eating your picnic out,

1:29.1

you know, in the grass or out on your balcony or whatever you have really does. Or having an

1:34.0

extended family beach trip once a year. I mean, all of those hours add up. So this book is about,

1:39.9

okay, like, all right, I've got a likable life mostly, but I don't really like it right now.

1:45.9

And you did such a fantastic job painting and portraying the days where you're just kind of like,

1:52.8

ugh.

1:54.8

We're like, this is not that big of a deal.

1:57.3

And I try and think, like, will I remember this in five years?

2:00.6

Probably not. but in the

2:02.1

moment so okay so I let me kick off with one because you talk about three kinds of hard days

2:07.9

that was really good it's really good to paint a picture of the different types of hard days

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