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The Jordan Harbinger Show

198: Mark Manson | Channeling Hope, Choosing Problems, and Changing Values

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Education, Science, Business

4.812.3K Ratings

🗓️ 13 May 2019

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

Mark Manson (@iammarkmanson) is a blogger, entrepreneur, and author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life and his latest, Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope.

What We Discuss with Mark Manson:
  • How acknowledging the uncomfortable truth of human existence's meaninglessness can ultimately serve as an argument against nihilism.
  • What the paradox of purpose tells us about the stress that accompanies an overwhelming abundance of choice.
  • How the feeling brain and the thinking brain might seem at odds, but they actually conspire to guide our values (for better or worse).
  • Why your identity will stay your identity until a new experience acts against it, and how you can change your values to fit your current narrative instead of one that's outdated.
  • What the God value is and how it aligns your hierarchy of values by way of the feeling brain.
  • And much more...

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the show. I'm Jordan Harbinger. As always, I'm here with my producer, Jason

0:04.6

de Philipo. Our feelings control us. The thinking brain and the feeling brain, seemingly forever

0:10.6

at odds with one another. Rationality used to be the highest of human virtues. Now it

0:15.7

seems, the pendulum is swung perhaps too far in the other direction. Many of us seem

0:19.9

to be convinced that our feelings are all that matter. This thought trap lodges us firmly

0:25.4

into a quagmire where we get stuck in one identity, unable to see past our own values and impulses.

0:31.0

The problem is that we puny humans actually need that conflict of values to derive meaning.

0:36.9

I know it might be too early for all this philosophical BS, I get it. So let me rephrase

0:41.4

this. We're all starting to become way too friggin soft and we're running headlong into

0:46.1

a crisis of meaning because of that. In this episode, my friend and one of the best selling

0:50.6

authors of the decade in order of importance, Mark Manson joins me to discuss the research

0:55.7

behind this phenomenon and as always, what we can do about it to correct course. Despite

1:01.7

the subject matter or perhaps because of it, this is a fun conversation with a good friend

1:05.8

of mine and I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. If you want to know how I managed to

1:09.3

create networks that contain superstars like Mark Manson, well, I'm showing you how

1:13.1

to do that for free. No upsell, change in life stuff. This is what it is. The biggest thing

1:17.4

that's ever changed my life, these networking skills go grab the course, Jordan Harbinger.com

1:22.5

slash courses where that's at. In the meantime, here's Mark Manson. One thing that's great

1:27.4

is you're good at writing like people think like that in dialogue. Is that something

1:31.2

you do that on purpose, obviously? Yeah. I try to write the way I think, you know,

1:35.7

in the way I talk, which is kind of like just a dude in the bar. So I think people resonate

1:41.2

with that. That's very like writer guy with a typewriter of you.

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