198. Holding Your Standards in Dating
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 27 April 2023
⏱️ 63 minutes
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Summary
Did you miss the Hold the Standard masterclass? Good news—welcome to the replay!
When people talk about standards, I tend to notice one of three patterns: either someone is copying someone else's standards because they sound good, without stopping to actually consider whether those standards match with what they're looking for; someone doesn't set ANY standards because they don't know what they want, they just want SOMEONE; or they set conditional standards, which they drop the second someone who doesn't meet those standards pays them any attention.
I don't believe we ever drop standards; I believe we never had a hold of them in the first place. Let's talk about how we can finally hold the standards we claim to have set.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Self-Love Fix Podcast. |
| 0:09.4 | I'm your host, the Eagle Whisperer, aka Beatrice, founder of the Self-Trust Alchemy Program, |
| 0:15.6 | formerly known as Self-Love Overcode Penancy, T-Addict, and a Self-Trust Embodiment Coach, |
| 0:21.2 | Teacher, and Mentor for Deep Luxe Bitches, who aren't afraid of the dark. |
| 0:26.5 | I'm on a mission to redefine Self-Love, to redefine everything that you think you have to fix |
| 0:32.1 | about yourself. You're people pleasing, codependency, your past relationship, |
| 0:36.1 | and so much more so that you can alchemize these aspects of yourself into deep, |
| 0:41.7 | reality-bending levels of Self-Trust and next-level self-acceptance. |
| 0:45.5 | In this podcast, we don't believe you need fixing. Here, the only thing we repair is the way you |
| 0:53.0 | currently view Self-Love manifestation, alignment, and dating and relationships. Welcome to the Dark Side, |
| 0:59.5 | where we play in the realm of astrology, ego work, shadow work, virtuality, mask and fem work, |
| 1:05.2 | and so much more. Oh, and block the laps. Welcome to Self-Love redefine. Welcome to the Self-Love Fix. |
| 1:13.2 | Welcome to the Hold the Standard Master Class. I'm looking forward to a more empowered approach to |
| 1:25.4 | standards. I feel I have a black and white approach, and that makes it difficult to uphold my standards. |
| 1:30.7 | Okay, that's really good. Yeah, that happens with a lot of people, not currently dating, focusing on |
| 1:35.7 | my businesses. It gets lonely sometimes. You know what's so interesting about that Brianna, |
| 1:40.7 | or Brianna, I'm not sure how to say your name. I don't know why we are under the impression that we |
| 1:45.2 | can't do both. I literally, I think that's the thing that we get taught is that we have to focus |
| 1:53.6 | on something, on one thing, and we can't actually have more than one thing going on. A lot of men, |
| 2:01.2 | when they date, they don't do that. They don't do that thing of like, I mean, they can at times, |
| 2:07.4 | but they don't feel like they have to, like in order to succeed in one area of their life, |
| 2:12.5 | they have to cut off this other area. So that's really interesting. Like, I think we can actually do |
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