197-The Gifts of Suffering
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 17 January 2019
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
How could suffering ever be a gift? Why would focusing on suffering be a wise thing?
A lot of times the women I coach don't take the time to look at the pain and suffering they're experiencing.
But when they do that, they are distracting themselves away from its lessons--the wisdom God wants to teach us through it. And even through our AWARENESS of it.
On this episode, I talk about the 13 Gifts of Sufferings and I talk specifically about some of my own sufferings that have given me great gifts and it was because I was aware of them in the moments that God used it profoundly in my life.
Jump on a call with me personally to unearth what you're going through and use the suffering to provoke action! Check to see if I have some time on my calendar at www.dym.as.me It's a 40min call for free with me directly!
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Testimonial: of a husband of 20+ years:
I just wanted to say a few things, like...Thank you!
Thank you for the time you spent with her, and for your generosity, it is much appreciated. I don't know what the two of you discussed, I haven't asked and she hasn't told. But I haven't seen such a fast change in [her] in, well....ever.
It's like she is a different woman. Actually, she is behaving more like the woman I thought I married or wish I had married... The changes I have seen in her are profound...
Again, I don't know what you coached her to do, and I don't know if she is doing it all or only doing half. But I do see a changed woman in my life. So again I say "Thank You!"
Check to see if I have some time on my calendar at www.dym.as.me I'd love to speak with you directly for free!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring |
| 0:08.1 | wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage. |
| 0:13.9 | Here's your host, Bella Rose. |
| 0:17.9 | Hey there, and welcome, welcome. |
| 0:20.3 | This is Bella Rose, and I am so grateful that you are joining me. Here we are |
| 0:26.1 | just in the, let's see, second week of January, or is this already the third week? Oh my gosh, |
| 0:33.9 | it is flying, but I am so excited that you're joining. Today is to dive into what |
| 0:42.4 | suffering means. You know, I talk to so many husbands that email me in suffering and wives |
| 0:48.9 | that are suffering, and my heart goes out to them because I deeply know they're suffering. I deeply have been there. |
| 0:56.8 | And I want to talk about what are the gifts of suffering? And you might be shocked, but I truly believe |
| 1:03.8 | that there are gifts. And if you don't look at that straight in the face, you're going to miss those |
| 1:08.6 | gifts. You're not going to receive what you could be from your |
| 1:12.8 | suffering. I love the title of this book by, who is it by? Well, the title of the book is called |
| 1:22.3 | Don't Waste Your Cancer. And it's shockingly profound to think that God would actually give you suffering |
| 1:31.6 | on purpose. But that is exactly what I feel he has done in my life. Okay, so I want to just share a |
| 1:39.1 | quick testimonial of a husband of 20 plus years. I worked with his wife just a few times and into just a few times |
| 1:49.1 | of our sessions. He sent me this email. He said, I just wanted to say a few things like, |
| 1:56.6 | thank you, exclamation, boy, thank you for the time you spent with her for your generosity. |
| 2:02.6 | It is much appreciated. I don't know what the two of you discussed. I haven't asked and she |
| 2:07.9 | hasn't told, but I haven't seen such a fast change in her in well ever. It's like she's a different |
| 2:15.1 | woman. Actually, she's behaving more like the woman I thought I married |
| 2:19.1 | or wish I had married. The changes I have seen in her are profound. Again, I don't know what you |
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