everyone that might be going through something, maybe a rocky time in their marriage,

maybe they're thinking about some things, maybe they're wondering if maybe divorce is right for them.

I want you to just here hear these words that this free would never wish this pain on her worst enemy.

What's up everybody? Welcome back to the podcast episode 197. Thank you for being here.

I answer your questions. You send them to me. GrangerSmith podcast at gmail.com.

Make them about anything. It doesn't matter the subject and we'll kind of walk through it long

for them like we're sitting in the truck. You got a question for me and I'm like, man,

it's a good question. Let's talk about it. Let's take a little bit of time and we're going to jump

right into this first one here. Now these are by the way, they're out of order, they're random.

I haven't read them. I don't have notes. We're just going for it. So you're going to hear these

as I hear them for the first time. First one, subject line says divorce. Hey, Granger, I appreciate

your music, love of God and your podcast. I enjoy listening to them while I'm at work. To get to

the point, my husband and I are going through a divorce. I feel like a failure. I failed my husband.

I failed God. I failed my marriage. I failed as a wife. There was infidelity on both ends.

I know it's the right thing to do, but I've never felt so hurt before. This feels like death.

If I'm being honest, I don't want this divorce, but he has made it so clear that there is no going

back. Papers have been signed. I lost it when the notary walked up to me to have them signed.

I would never wish this pain on my worst enemy. Being a Christian, it's so hard to accept that I

am adding to that high divorce rate. God bless. Breathe. All right, Bree, thank you so much for the email

and for being vulnerable. And there's not a question here. So interesting. It's very rare that I

get an email that's not a question, but I'm going to use this actually for this podcast because I think

you're not asking a question. It's just as powerful to tell your story out loud, to say it,

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