I think a lot of times people get nervous about running out of things to say themselves.

And I'm always like, yeah, you know, the easiest thing is just get the other person to talk.

That's actually the easiest.

Oh, my gosh.

Yeah.

I did an interview with a matchmaker for my podcast on an episode.

And he had this great line was to be interested rather than try to be interesting.

So showing interest in another person, you can always ask questions and then notice, right,

if they're sort of pulling away, they're looking around, they're checking their phone or their

watch.

If there's some of those clues that maybe they're trying to exit

the flirt a little bit, hey, this was so great chatting with you. Hope you enjoyed the rest of the

rest of the party. Amazing. your co-host, Erica Spira.

And I'm Allie Jackson. Hello. Hello, everyone. We have a very fun episode for you guys today. We talked to the flirt coach, Benjamin Comros,

all about flirting, which was a very fun. We've never done a flirting episode before.

It was so fun. We talked about so many different scenarios for flirting from like seeing a

random stranger at a party or a bar, all the way to flirting when you're in a relationship.

Yeah. Like how do you help keep a spark a little alive, flirting when you're in a relationship. Yeah.

Like how do you help keep a spark a little alive, you know? Everybody likes a little flirt. Everybody likes to feel flattered. But we had a great time talking to Benjamin. I think you guys are really going to enjoy this one. I do too. It was super fun. Especially as somebody who doesn't feel like a natural flirt. Like I don't feel like I have that energy necessarily. and he definitely does.

He made me feel more confident than I can do it.

Same.

Yeah.

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