195: Be Your Own Friend
The Next Right Thing
Emily P. Freeman
4.8 • 5.4K Ratings
🗓️ 5 October 2021
⏱️ 9 minutes
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Summary
What do we do when we wish we were different but struggle to make a change? What do we do when a thing we're good at (that is sometimes good) is also a thing that is sometimes trouble? Every strength has a shadow side and sometimes gifts come with burdens to bear. If you wonder what to do when your best gets the best of you, listen in.
Links + Resources From This Episode:
- Friends University's Master of Arts in Christian Spiritual Formation and Leadership
- Learn more about the StrengthsFinder assessment
- The Return of the Prodigal Son by Henri Nouwen
- Order The Next Right Thing Guided Journal
- Grab a copy of my book The Next Right Thing
- Find me on Instagram @emilypfreeman
- Download a transcript of this and every episode at www.emilypfreeman.com
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | I'm Emily P. Freeman and welcome to the next great thing. |
| 0:04.3 | You're listening to episode 195. |
| 0:09.3 | This is a podcast about making decisions, but it's also about making a life. |
| 0:14.5 | If you struggle with decision fatigue, chronic hesitation, or if you just need a few minutes |
| 0:18.5 | away from the constant stream of information and the sometimes delightful but also distracting |
| 0:23.8 | hum of entertainment, you're in the right place for a thoughtful story, a little prayer, |
| 0:29.4 | and a simple next right step. |
| 0:31.6 | Listen in. |
| 0:39.8 | It's a Friday in September, and I find myself in a room with singing quakers and stained |
| 0:45.6 | glass, and the piano rich Mullens played at his baccalaureate. |
| 0:48.9 | I'll back up. |
| 0:51.0 | I didn't find myself here. I came here on purpose on an airplane. |
| 0:55.9 | It's the apprentice gathering at Friends University in Wichita, Kansas, a school where I serve |
| 1:01.6 | as one of the residency lecturers for the master's program in Christian spiritual formation |
| 1:06.2 | and leadership. |
| 1:07.6 | Friends University is also the school where the late singer, songwriter, and Ragamuffin |
| 1:12.0 | Rich Mullens attended and graduated from with a degree in music education in 1995, just |
| 1:19.1 | two short years before he died. |
| 1:21.9 | The stage where he wants sang is right in front of me now. |
| 1:26.6 | I don't live in Wichita, although I'm starting to feel as though I kind of do as I travel |
| 1:32.2 | here a lot. |
| 1:33.9 | But two years ago I agreed to speak at this gathering, and then COVID happened, and the |
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