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🗓️ 4 November 2024
⏱️ 102 minutes
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Jewish Matchmaking remains one of Erica and Ali’s favorite dating shows, and this week we welcome its host: Aleeza Ben-Shalom! We get into her viral dating philosophies including no touching for five dates and “date them until you hate them,” plus her thoughts on what qualities make a good match.
In Updates, Ali debriefs a Halloween night that was very out of her comfort zone while Erica discovers that dating app tropes span multiple continents.
Where to find Aleeza: On Instagram @aleezabenshalom, on TikTok @aleezabenshalom, at www.marriagemindedmentor.com.
Pre-order Aleeza's book "Matchmaker Matchmaker": https://marriagemindedmentor.com/book/
Timestamps: Aleeza joins us at around minute 42.
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0:00.0 | that's the slow spark. |
0:01.8 | Like it's there and then it goes out. You're like, oh, and it goes, spark, spark, spark, spark. And you're like, oh, it's there. And then it goes out again. You're like, oh. But it keeps coming back. You're like, oh, that's what you want because it's a much healthier level. The spark, it's just not maintainable. Like a sparkler at the end, it goes out. That candle will keep relighting over and over again year after year. It will come back at the appropriate moments, at the appropriate level without like a whatcha, which is out of control, just a little like soup flame. And eventually burns your hand. Hey everybody. Welcome back to finding Mr. Haight, the podcast. I am your co-host, Eric Kspira. |
0:51.8 | And I'm Allie Jackson. Hello. |
0:54.4 | Happy belated Halloween to everybody? |
0:57.5 | Yeah. |
0:58.6 | Happy Halloween. |
1:00.5 | We have a great episode this week with Jewish mashmaking. |
1:04.7 | So excited to have her on the show. |
1:07.2 | Oh my gosh. |
1:07.9 | I am so pumped for everyone to hear our conversation with Elisa. I mean, you and I both loved that show. We've had somebody from it on the show before. It's so good. And we just, we get into a lot of juicy stuff. So I'm excited. Yeah, very excited. She was a great guest. Very happy she did the show. On the topic of Halloween, how was your Halloween weekend? |
1:27.9 | So Skyline's friends go to this party every year. It's called City of Gods. It is affiliated with House of Yes, but it's not at House of Yes. For those people who live in New York or who have been, House of Yes is a venue in Brooklyn that does, themed really intense parties. I would describe many of them as rave like. I was going to say it's, no, it's a rave place. It's like a warehouse rave. Yeah. The Brooklyn Warehouse rave. Yes. Yeah. I guess I just, I've never really been to a rave, so I don't feel qualified to say what one is. |
1:57.3 | No, it is. It is. It's a, it's a, it's a, it's a party place. I don't know if you'll want me to keep this in. I know they have like test strips for drugs and stuff there. Yes. Oh, yes, a lot of drugs. A lot of drugs. |
1:58.5 | Yeah, it's a lot of drugs. |
1:59.3 | It's a rave. |
2:00.2 | It's a rife, buddy. |
2:00.8 | It's a rave. So the party we went to was most certainly a rave. |
2:04.8 | Also in the sense that it was in a warehouse setting. So it wasn't at House of Yes. It was in industry city, which is another place in Brooklyn. It's in Sunset Park near the IKEA that's there if anybody's familiar. Oh, yes, yes. Yeah. |
2:40.7 | But so it was in a series of warehouses, like all kind of connected to each other with like outdoor space and we bought tickets a while ago. |
2:43.4 | I was honestly quite nervous. |
2:45.7 | Oh, really? |
2:46.7 | Why? |
2:47.3 | For a few reasons. |
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