Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage without your man's conscious

effort so that you feel desired, taking care of, and special, even if your relationship feels completely

hopeless.

I'm Lord Doyle, and today I'm talking about what to do

when he doesn't love you back.

There was a lot of fighting in my guest Julia's blended family

and her husband decided to move away.

It was a terrible wake-up call.

She found the six intimacy skills and was practicing them.

But a year later, he still wasn't coming back. Today, her marriage is so connected and strong. She knows she's married to her soulmate.

She's going to tell us what she did so you can do it too. But first let's get to what to do when he doesn't love you back and you want him to love you because it hurts like crazy and it crushes yourself

esteem when that happens.

There are three debilitating myths about this that I see women falling for, so we're going to expose

those myths and talk about what to do instead. It feels so rejecting when you find out that your guy doesn't love you back.

It feels like you've been let down in the worst way when you least expect it.

Your head races with terrible thoughts about how this could have happened,

whether it's hopeless and what it means for your future, which can seem so dark. You wonder, does it mean that you aren't

lovable? So first of all, no, it doesn't mean that. And in a moment, I'll give you proof, but more importantly,

if what you want is for him to respond to you like an irresistible magnet, so you feel

attractive and desired, let's bust these myths that could hurt your relationship.

Myth number one, we can talk this out. When he says he doesn't love you back or if he's acting like it, it's as tempting as a

cinnabond to talk things out with him, but I don't recommend it. Those state of

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