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🗓️ 5 September 2022
⏱️ 75 minutes
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Relationships have a way of bringing out the best and the worst of our humanity. Giving ourselves to others in these relationships can be scary. Behind some of the most difficult messes we make, with the people we care about the most, are wounds that have evolved out of the way that we learned how to attach as children. These wounds can create cycles of disconnection that loop repeatedly throughout our lives if they go unaddressed.
In this episode Justin sits down with his therapist Barry McGarrah. Barry is an Emotionally Focused Therapist that has given his life to understanding how the relational attachment styles we have affect the way we experience connection. Barry shares insights on formative wounds that perpetuate disconnection while bringing clarity to the ways we can have healthy attachments.
If you’re wanting to have a better understanding of how you connect to the people you care about the most, this episode will be a beacon of hope that will shine a light on how you relate, while giving you a sense of relief knowing there’s reasons for why you are the way you are.
Also, enrollment for The Pathway to Freedom 2022 is NOW LIVE! Head to https://justinandabi.com/courses/the-pathway-to-freedom/ to get enrolled and learn more!
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0:00.0 | Life isn't perfect and neither we. |
0:05.0 | No, but we know how to face our fears and have some fun and talk about all the messiest |
0:11.3 | things of life. |
0:12.3 | Like the messiest things. |
0:14.3 | Get connected to yourself, get connected to others and get connected to the life right |
0:20.0 | in front of you. |
0:21.1 | This is the connected life with Justin and Abby. |
0:23.9 | That's me. |
0:24.9 | That's you. |
0:26.0 | And you. |
0:27.0 | We connect to life, peeps, Justin here and super excited for today's podcast. |
0:32.0 | I have one of my favorite people on with us today. |
0:35.0 | Abby will not be joining us. |
0:38.3 | And that's because Barry and I wanted to have some intimate space to talk about how messed |
0:46.0 | up I have been inside of my marriage. |
0:49.5 | Barry's chuffling in the background. |
0:50.8 | I can see him. |
0:53.0 | Today we're going to get into talking with someone who has been a profound part of my personal |
0:58.3 | journey and part of the journey of repair inside of Abby and I's relationship. |
1:03.8 | So for those of you who don't know, Abby and I have been one of the avenues we're always |
1:09.2 | like on a journey of self development and working through the messiness inside of our |
1:13.4 | heart. |
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