Oh, hello people in podcast land. Welcome back. My guest today is Kyle Eschenroder and we are talking about his fantastic blog post. What do you want to want? I stumbled upon this at the start of the year and was just totally blown away.

Working out what you want to want is the most important fundamental thing that you have to do in your life. We do not want to live a life of regret and if we're not careful we can quite easily end up at a place in life that we didn't really want to be or mean to get to.

If you follow your default desires societal norms your evolutionary heritage the programming that you've got the way you've dealt with your traumas in the past. This is what's in store for you. You will be buffeted by the wind of life just like a kite in the breeze.

So today we are learning why and how we need to step into our programming and actively design our direction in life. I adore this topic and considering it's a subject area that I literally didn't know existed.

Before I read Kyle's blog posts it's amazing. I really, really hope that you enjoy this episode and take a lot away from it. You need to go and check the actual blog post out as well. It's a 60 minute read but it's wonderful. So linked in the show notes below. Go and enjoy it. Thank you to everyone for the feedback about modern wisdom university.

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Kyle Eshin Roader in the building how are you doing man very well how are you very very well indeed I'm happy to have you on it's been a long time coming

first and foremost for the listeners that don't know who you are why why do you think that I'm speaking to you today why do you think I reached out.

Oh man that's you know that's a good that's a very good question.

You have had a lapse of lapse in judgment.

No I actually you know I think it's an interesting time I know you found this article about asking ourselves the question what do we want to want.

It has a lot to do with with reevaluating our values and our desires and I think you know a lot of us are being forced to do that throughout this this COVID situation so it's kind of a good time to talk about talk about that and see if we might be able to do it in a more strategic or skillful way.

I think you've answered my my reasons pretty accurately there man yeah I am I stumbled across your blog post what do you want to want.

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