You're gonna f*** up. You're gonna make bad decisions. You're gonna f*** things up. It's gonna happen.

Quit living in the past. Just learn from it. Try to redeem yourself every day for mistakes you've made in the past. But don't live in the past. Just redeem yourself from those mistakes. If you're apologizing to someone, be sincere and own it. Own your mistake and move forward. If you're getting an apology given to you, learn to forgive and move on. Quit trying to get a f*** pound of flesh every time somebody makes a mistake.

Quit running people through the ringer.

It's unhealthy. And it's not necessary. If you don't want to accept someone's apology, don't accept it. There's no reason to ring them through the ringer, dude. Take a pound of flesh. There's no reason for that. We as people right now are competing so much with other people

and you shouldn't be. You need to compete with yourself in this moment and next moment needs to be

better than this moment. And tomorrow needs to be better than today. And today needs to be better

than yesterday. You have to focus on that stuff. I'm telling you, we're guilty of this in so many ways to where we

get stagnant in the mud. We waste all this energy and time on conflict decisions back and forth

playing f*** tennis with our mind. Should we have, should we have, did I make the wrong

decision? I make the right decision. In business, in relationships. We do this all the time.

Stop doing it. The first thing you should do is understand that you have, you should never have any

regrets. Like you go through these regrets and you live in regret. Here's the problem with doing that.

You're not growing. You're staying in the past. The reason your windshield is so much bigger in your rear view mirror is because that's what's in front of you. And when you stay in regret, you're looking in the rear view mirror. Your mind is small. Your life is small. Your problems all start to come and they're eating, eating your brain away and eating your energy away and they're renting space for future success and for future knowledge and for things you want

to do. It's sitting there just depriving you of the happiness and the success that you deserve

because you're living in regret. You're not in a contest with anybody else. You're in a contest

with yourself from what you were in the past. So you've got to ask yourself, what are you going to do differently today?

How are you going to be better today?

Are you going to step in and redeem yourself from yesterday or last week or last month or last

year?

And those are putting the steps in place to be successful.

You can't feel like you can't change

and life is over and you're done. It doesn't work that way. You're not done. You're allowed to have

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