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185 – How Successful Guys Overcome Edging

Porn Free Radio

Matt Dobschuetz

Self-improvement, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8677 Ratings

🗓️ 4 January 2019

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Most relapses start with edging. Edging is any unsound activity that mimics our old patterns with porn.

In this episode, you'll learn to shift your thinking away from "this is not porn" mentality. 

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0:00.0

Porn Free Radio Episode 185. How Successful Guys Overcome Edging.

0:06.4

All right, guys, happy New Year. This is our first episode of 2019.

0:11.3

We're going on. What are we going on? Almost five years of Porn Free Radio this year.

0:16.3

So I'm happy you're here today. We're continuing our successful guys series that we started at the end of 2018.

0:24.6

We've talked about how successful guys overcome lack of motivation.

0:29.2

We talked about how successful guys overcome shame, how successful guys overcome relapsing,

0:35.1

how successful guys overcome boredom. And finally, we're here at the end, how successful guys overcome boredom.

0:38.6

And finally, we're here at the end, how successful guys overcome edging.

0:43.2

Now, if you don't know what edging is, hang on.

0:46.3

We'll talk about what edging is, how I define it.

0:49.4

And if you don't know what it is, you're probably doing it.

0:53.0

So we'll get into what the patterns are

0:55.9

and more importantly, how to overcome it. Now, it's the beginning of 2019. One of the biggest

1:04.4

impacts you can make on your recovery is getting involved in a powerful recovery group. Now, here is the problem.

1:13.0

A lot of groups that you go to, maybe it's at your church or even a local 12-step group,

1:19.7

they can be good.

1:20.8

There's definitely good groups out there.

1:22.7

I hear all the time of guys in the porn free radio community who are running groups, who are leading groups,

1:29.4

who are impacting their local groups by just showing up and sharing some of the tools they're

1:35.4

getting here. So by no means am I throwing groups under the bus that are out there, local groups.

1:41.4

But here's one thing I hear consistently about groups that are struggling.

1:47.1

There's three things missing. There is a lack of connection in the group. There's a lack of

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