184: Getting Over Severe Abuse. How to Build Relationships as an Introvert. How to Control the "Cowboy" Mentality. Chronic Complainers.

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🗓️ 3 July 2019

⏱️ 136 minutes

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Summary

0:00:00 - Opening

0:00:18 - How to build relationships being an introvert.

0:04:28 - How to lead a person with a "Cowboy" mentality or behavior.

0:14:29 - How to handle chronic complainers.

0:23:10 - Changing your mind on important issues.

0:35:58 - How do you detach when you're being personally attacked?

0:43:50 -What if you get fired after you take ownership of mistakes?

0:51:44 - Mistakes made in the past.

1:08:54 - Are you GETTING AFTER IT too hard?

1:34:24 - How to balance a dangerous job with protecting and providing for family.

1:42:55 - Getting over sexual abuse.

1:58:30 - SUPPORT: How to stay on THE PATH.

2:14:22 - Closing Gratitude.

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0:00.0	This is jockel podcast number 184 with echo Charles and me
0:05.0	Jockel willink good evening. I go good evening
0:08.7	It's been a while since we've done some Q&A and there's been a lot of questions
0:14.8	So let's get into it ready to go into it. Okay question number one jockel
0:20.8	I'm having issues playing the game quote-unquote at work
0:24.6	I'm quiet and friendly, but I prefer to work hard rather than stand out and talk. I
0:31.5	Found I have trouble forming more personal connections with my boss and coworkers. What are your tips?
0:40.3	So look when I talk about playing the game
0:43.2	I'm not talking about the fact that you have to change your entire personality
0:46.9	profile
0:48.0	to
0:49.0	Start to connect with people that's not what I'm saying. You don't have to go from being someone that's what they say quiet and friendly
0:55.8	You don't have to become some chatty extravert
0:59.6	Running around making small talk with anybody and on top of that
1:04.5	There's a little bit of a statement here that says you know, I'd rather work hard as if
1:10.5	There's these are mutually exclusive things which they are certainly not so this being forming relationships with people and playing the game does not interfere with your work at all
1:21.3	I'm not saying that you sit around and talk when there's work to be done
1:25.8	but
1:27.8	There's gonna be natural breaks in whatever you're doing. There's gonna be moments where
1:33.0	Skip the action pauses and you get a chance to connect with somebody. So that's fine. So so what are some tips?
1:40.5	That how would you do this?
1:42.7	So I thought about this
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