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183 | A Bus Full of ADHDers with Bonnie Mincu

ADHD reWired

Eric Tivers, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP

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🗓️ 12 September 2017

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

Bonnie Mincu joins me on this episode. Bonnie spent 23 years in a Fortune 50 corporation as a marketing manager, training manager, executive coach, and organizational development consultant. She left her consulting firm in 2000 to do similar work on her own. But, without the structure of fast-paced deadlines, she found herself floundering and avoiding her desk. This was when she discovered she has ADHD. She built her business around coaching and training individual ADHD clients. Since starting Thrive ADHD in 2001, Bonnie has developed a number of training tools and programs. In this conversation, you will hear Bonnie list and describe the characters that she has developed. These characters are riding the bus in our brains and take turns driving the bus. You will also learn how these characters can impact each other. Bonnie is launching a new membership-based training program called, Productivity PathFinder. Connect with Bonnie Mincu: You’ll Learn: [06:12] - Bonnie explains a new concept that involves a way of thinking of your brain, and characters in your brain. [07:12] - Bonnie says we frequently use terms to describe what is happening, but they aren’t accurate. She provides an example of this with procrastination. [09:36] - Bonnie describes characters in your brain. You will meet Steady Eddie, Whiny Winnie, Impatient Iggy, Overwhelmed Oscar, and Emotional Emma and the personalities all of these characters have. [21:08] - Bonnie talks about time sense and being able to estimate the amount of time a task will take. [24:10] - Bonnie explains that she does not have a poor time sense, which led to her not realizing she had ADHD. [24:58] - Bonnie continues listing characters, describing Helpless Hannah and Critical Calvin. [32:10] - We talk about decision making and the cause of difficulties in this process. [33:35] - Bonnie explains how these characters can interact and how to bring certain characters to the forefront in situations. [38:40] - Bonnie describes Disorganized Derek, and she explains the cause of disorganization, and its impact on people that don’t want to be disorganized. [43:01] - Bonnie explains the four quadrants of organization. [44:35] - We discuss the idea of multi-tracking vs. multitasking. [49:58] - Bonnie shares a secret on what she calls a “weird obsession.” [51:07] - We come up with a character that Bonnie may be missing, Distracted Dave. [52:28] - Bonnie describes Emotional Emma and the role Critical Calvin plays in Emma’s actions. [54:30] - I address the fear of being judged. [57:53] - Bonnie shares a tip for managing shame. [59:28] - Bonnie talks about visual images for these characters she has developed. [1:00:38] - Bonnie talks about Productivity Pathfinder. Your Resources: Use my Audible.com affiliate link for your favorite titles: ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group The 10th season of the ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability group is now full. If you would like to join the waitlist go to . The 11th season of the group starts on January 8th. When I have details on early registration, I will let you know! Support the podcast on Patreon Patreon allows listeners like you to support content creators like me. With a monthly contribution, you can get access to different levels of perks. Learn more at ADHD reWired Facebook Group: If you would like to join the ADHD reWired secret Facebook group, go to and fill out an application. Productivity Q&A Get your ADHD questions answered live! These Q&A sessions take place on the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 12:30pm. Go to . Want to be a guest? Hey! What about you? Do you have a story? Are you a Coach? Are you an ADHD Clinician? If you answered yes to any of these questions and you’d like to be a guest, schedule a pre-interview call .

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That's what you want to train yourself as the owner of this bus, as the boss who decides who should drive when.

0:08.0

I mean, I guess you could say her steady Eddie, you know, bring steady Eddie in to kind of think about it all but really what we're trying to do is train ourselves as the owners of the bus to make wise decisions and you can't really make wise decisions if you're an absentee

0:25.6

owner and you're not paying attention who's driving and you don't know who drove

0:30.2

the bus into a ditch or totally got lost off some meandering road instead of staying

0:35.3

on the highway. You know you want to know who did that. 80-H.D. Rewired episode 183.

0:48.6

This is the show designed for those of us with really good intentions, but a slightly wandering attention.

0:56.3

My name is Eric Tivers. I'm a licensed clinical social worker, coach, and speaker.

1:01.6

The website is 80-H-D rewired.com. We know that starting is the hardest

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part so let's get started. But first let me tell you about this.

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Join us every second Tuesday of the month at 1230 PM Central Time, that's 1030 a.m. Pacific,

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1.30 Eastern, for ADHDWired's live Q&A.

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And I just made signing up even a more ADHD friendly.

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Go to Eric Tivers. com slash events

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and you can go there once and register for the next six to eight live

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Q&As all at one time.

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So sign up once and you won't have to remember to register each time.

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You'll get automated email reminders and it'll even save it to your online calendar.

1:48.8

I'll be answering your questions live.

1:51.8

You can ask them in the Q&A box on Zoom and if you've

1:55.6

always wanted to be on a podcast you can ask your question live. Just make sure

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you're in a quiet location. To register, go to Eric Tivers.com

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slash events. That's Eric Tivers.com slash events.

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