182 – How Successful Guys Overcome Shame
Porn Free Radio
Matt Dobschuetz
4.8 • 677 Ratings
🗓️ 13 December 2018
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we continue with our successful guys series by discussing shame.
C.G. Jung called shame a "soul eating emotion." It's the corrosive state where our failure and flaws come to define us. Where we see ourselves as broken and unable to change.
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| 0:00.0 | Porn Free Radio, Episode 182, how successful guys overcome shame. |
| 0:06.2 | Before we get started today, guys, a quick announcement about Rev Group coaching. |
| 0:11.1 | We have some new spots available in January 2019 for guys who want to join a Rev Group. |
| 0:18.4 | Now, Rev Groups are full of consistent, safe, hope-filled people who get it. |
| 0:25.7 | And if you're struggling in recovery, it's usually due to the fact that you have a lack of consistency. |
| 0:33.7 | You haven't taken ownership with your plan. You're having trouble following through on commitment, or you're just not showing up. |
| 0:41.9 | And so Rev gives you a chance to show up with other guys who are committed and consistent. |
| 0:47.6 | It's a safe group where you can really be known, where you can share your story, and where you can find hope-filled people. There's guys in |
| 0:57.7 | the group who are working plans. They're getting sobriety. They're starting to move forward and live |
| 1:05.7 | porn free. And you can catch on to that. You can catch the hope. And finally, they get it. You know, if there's one |
| 1:13.7 | thing I hear a lot is I'll say, who knows about this struggle in your life? And a guy will tell me, |
| 1:18.9 | my wife knows about it. My mom knows about it. My pastor knows about it. My father-in-law knows |
| 1:24.7 | about it. And I'm thinking, wow, that sounds like a lot of allies. |
| 1:31.3 | That sounds like people who care about you, but they don't necessarily get it, right? |
| 1:39.0 | They look at you as kind of the porn guy, the guy who's struggling with porn that they have to help. |
| 1:45.3 | But in Rev Group coaching, you're going to meet other guys who get it. |
| 1:48.6 | They've been there before. |
| 1:50.0 | They've made the mistakes. |
| 1:53.3 | Been there, done that. |
| 1:55.5 | And so there's just a commonality that we all share that just literally just bonds us together and as we move forward |
| 2:03.8 | in recovery. And there's something about, you know, being together and, you know, kind of realizing |
| 2:11.7 | we're not the only one. That's so powerful. So if you're interested in Rev Group coaching, |
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