Hello, whinnevers. My name is Jesse Meekham, and this is podcast number 180 for you need a budget

where we teach you four rules to help you stop living paycheck to paycheck get out of

debt and save more money. This is a confession I wrote about it on the blog I'm

going to talk about it here a little bit I don't know exactly how I feel

about college I was so pleasantly surprised to see all the comments on our

Facebook post referencing the blog because people were kind of like dude

chill don't worry about it.

You know, I brought up things like,

I've got five kids, you know,

and should I make sure that they're all treated exactly equal?

And someone's like, are are they equal are they the same

children like no so there's my answer I liked that you know you play it by I'll play it by

here I don't know about You know you play it by I'll play it by here. I don't know about you

know you do you worry about ruining your kids. Do you does anyone else besides me

worry about spoiling your kids and not that you're trying to but do you worry about

accidentally doing that? I mean there are some differences with how my kids are

growing up compared to how I grew up and I don't know where this comes from where you

feel this romantic you, you have these like romantic idea, oh when I was a kid.

And I'm totally doing that now.

Guilty, guilty of doing that.

When I was a kid, I wrote my bike everywhere. My mom and dad never drove me anywhere, you know. When I was a kid I had to beg my mom to buy me shoes and true. When I was a kid you know it goes on and on and part of me and maybe

others you know you have this there's kind of this romantic idea of just things being simple. Maybe we long for

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