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Delight Your Marriage

180-Sex is Better In Marriage

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7 • 589 Ratings

🗓️ 27 February 2018

⏱️ 31 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

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Summary

Sex is Better In Marriage. If it's better, why is there so much divorce and so many unhappy marriages? Its better but it's also harder.

Here's why sex is harder in marriage:

  1. You see the good, the bad & the ugly.
  2. You have to be vulnerable and that's messy & uncomfortable.
  3. You see them in the mundane...when you're brushing your teeth... how can they be sexy to you?
  4. You have to maintain attraction to one person
  5. You have to be intentional about passion, spice & excitement

Why sex is better in marriage:

  1. It's real. Its not a performance where you have to be perfect. It's your real heart and real body. You can let your hair down and be who you are in your sexuality.
  2. It's not going to end. So you don't have to have this fear that if you don't please him, he'll leave. Instead your motivation is to make your forever relationship amazing.
  3. You find out what he likes, and get to practice that and hone your skills on his particularities for years.
  4. No fear of embarrassing yourself. He is the safest person there is. A person who promised to love you through it all and to never leave... feeling silly is something you can do with him.
  5. Sex is spiritual. Its not just a physical experience and you get to explore that in marriage. The peace, joy and love bleeds over from life and into the marriage bed and back out into life.

Be intentional about the spice of your sex life:

I've released the first parts of a new course I'm really excited about: The Seduction Course.

I didn't feel I could give the specificity I'd like to on a public platform like a podcast or website. So I'm including VERY practical understandings and examples you can use immediately in this course! 

Right now you can get the course at its lowest cost (it will go up in the following week as the 3rd part is released). Check out The Seduction Course now.

 

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage Podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring

0:08.1

wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage.

0:13.9

Here's your host, Bella Rose.

0:18.2

Hey there and welcome.

0:20.1

I am so glad that you're here. I hope that this is going to inspire you and pick you up and encourage you today. That is my goal. Now, I feel like we are fed this lie over and over and over again. That sex and marriage isn't great. In fact, it's not worth waiting for.

0:41.1

It's not worth saving for. It's, you know, might as well just have fun before you have to get married and all the sex stops.

0:51.7

You know, sometimes you hear men talk about marriage as the old ball and chain,

0:59.2

you know, where they're controlled and sex dries up and it's this terrible thing. In our society,

1:06.3

I mean, less and less people are getting married because of that lie from the enemy. And it's a lie that

1:13.6

sex outside of marriage is more interesting and more fun and, you know, women are more exciting

1:23.2

without being married. And I think, you know, what I want to do with D-Y-M,

1:31.2

I don't know if you have been able to listen to basically the vision of D-Y-M,

1:39.4

the purpose behind it is what I mean by vision.

1:43.5

But I feel like God made it very clear early on in this ministry was that it is to make it clear and make it real that sex is better in marriage because it is and it should be.

2:04.8

And we have to be intentional about that.

2:07.1

But it is better in marriage.

2:09.9

So I want to talk about what's the problem here?

2:13.1

The problem is that sex is also harder in marriage.

2:17.6

And I think that's why the world has, the world in all of us, Christians included, have gotten in a space where many of us think that sex is, you know, just not as good in marriage.

2:32.5

And a lot of men, especially, just they don't want to

2:37.3

propose because they think the sex is going to dry up. So here are the reasons, the five reasons that

2:47.7

I think sex is harder in marriage. And then I'm going to talk about the five reasons that I think sex is harder in marriage.

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