18. How To Be Awesome At Being Your Own Number One Fan!

How To Be Awesome At Everything

Lindsay Dickhout

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4.6 • 621 Ratings

🗓️ 27 January 2020

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Think about what a number one fan is!

Let’s use me for example… I love Bon Jovi. At one point in my life I would have said that I was Bon Jovi’s biggest fan. So that means… in you’re mind, their just the best- the ultimate! No matter what, they are awesome! I’m not focusing on the 5 songs that Bon Jovi made that totally flopped, not for a second! I’m focusing on You Give Love a Bad Name and Shot Through The Heart!

We focus on the good and we get EXCITED about them… we go out of our way to give energy and effort towards them. We speak highly of them and our overall energy is so positive and happy

This is exactly what you have to do for yourself!

I really think it’s the best thing you can do for yourself.

We’re talking about how to remove poison that may have been given to you in the past and how to ignore any negative talk that may be going on now.

True self-confidence means of valuing your own opinion yourself myself more than anybody else’s opinion about you.

And this self confidence has to be 100% based on your own thoughts - not the validation of your parents or your spouse… nobody!

Here are some other things we cover that are so important for the process of becoming your own number one fan…

Don't over judge yourself

Kill negative thoughts

Think positive

Act positive

Don’t compare yourself to other people

You can’t let your fails kill your self confidence

Take the time to get ready each day so you feel good about yourself

Stand talk

Speak clearly and directly

Be grateful

Smile

Exercise

Clear off your to do list

Be organized

I hope today’s episode helped you get one step closer to being your own number one fan!

So you focus on your strengths instead of your weaknesses and the self talk going on in your head is all positive, you’ve killed the negative!

Ping me on Instagram and let me know what you thought about this topic by commenting on my post about this episode. And if you didn’t know already, I have another podcast, called The Million Dollar Tan podcast where I talk about everything related to sunless tanning & having healthy and glowing skin that radiates. Check it out, I think you’ll like it! Thanks for listening… and cheers to being your own number one fan!

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0:00.0	Today, we're talking about how to be awesome at being your own number one fan. I think that this is the most
0:06.0	important thing. It just sets the tone for how we think of ourselves and the world around us.
0:10.7	So often we get in the routine of criticizing ourselves. At work, at home, with big things and little
0:15.8	things. And before we know it, we're spending more time focusing on our shortcomings than our successes.
0:20.7	That's why today we're diving into how focusing on our shortcomings than our successes. That's why today
0:21.4	we're diving into how we can impact our subconscious mind and renew how we think about ourselves.
0:27.1	Ditch the negative self-talk, celebrate our wins, and figure out how we are going to be
0:31.2	completely confident in ourselves in a way that's not based on anybody else's validation.
0:36.2	This is a one-person game. You're competing
0:38.8	against yourself and in order for your soul to be happy and to accomplish your goals, you just
0:43.5	have to be your own biggest fan. So whether you feel like you're 90% of the way there or 10% of
0:48.6	the way there, we're going to make huge strides today because I really believe if you're not
0:52.8	your own biggest fan, you've already
0:54.5	lost. So much to cover today. Let's go. You're listening to the How to Be Awesome at Everything
1:00.8	podcast where we're obsessed with life hacks that make your life more awesome. Your host,
1:06.9	Lindsay Dick Hout, is an entrepreneur and business owner, a mom and wife, and someone who wants to do things over the top at all times.
1:15.0	This concept started as a collection of things Lindsay has learned that she was documenting to give to her kids one day.
1:20.8	And now it's a podcast.
1:22.5	Join us on this journey where we talk about how to be awesome at everything we do.
1:27.3	Here's Lindsay.
1:28.6	Let's start at the beginning, shall we?
1:31.3	Some of us grew up in a home and an environment where we felt good about ourselves, and others of us didn't.
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