178: What's Your Fantasy?

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Mental Health, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 19 December 2018

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Sexual fantasy can play a large role in a relationship and individual sexuality. However, there's often a fair amount of shame around sexuality and sexual fantasies. Listen to today's show to learn how to explore your own fantasies and share them with your partner. You just might learn a few fun new things about each other and perhaps your fantasy will turn to reality! Today's show topics include: How to work on feeling less shameful about your sexual fantasies Communication tools to share your fantasies with your partner The deeper meaning of your sexual fantasies (Threesomes might be a need to feel desired, ect..) Learn if it's ever a bad thing to fantasize too much Examining your fantasies and peak sexual experiences And much more! Xanet Pailet is an intimacy educator, coach and author of Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself And Awaken Your Pleasure. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills. Xanet is a certified Somatica® Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatica Experiencing Trauma Practitioner. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Brides, Sex with Emily, SheKnows, and Elephant Journal. Full show notes and episode links at: http://idopodcast.com/178 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Join our 5 Day Couples Appreciation Challenge here: idopodcast.com/appreciation Do you want to hear more on this topic? Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Spark My Relationship Course: Get access to our special offer for I Do Podcast listeners only by visiting: SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock Storyworth: StoryWorth makes it easy and fun for your loved ones to share their stories, with weekly emailed story prompts - questions you’ve never thought to ask. At the end of the year, they’ll get their stories bound in a beautiful hardcover book. Strengthen your family bonds, and get to know your loved one in a whole new way. For $20 off, visit Storyworth.com/ido If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	And Take me to the place in the middle of the sun. What's going on on,
0:28.0	going on guys?
0:30.0	What's going on guys? Welcome to ID Podcast.
0:31.6	Thanks so much for joining us.
0:34.1	We are happy to share this episode with you.
0:38.0	We're actually in the middle of a crazy rain down for.
0:41.8	I can hardly hear Chase and he's right next to me it's that loud.
0:45.0	We live in the rainforest of Costa Rica.
0:47.8	It is the rain forest.
0:48.6	We're coming into the dry season, but apparently it's not quite here but we like a good rain and good rain is a
0:56.3	little bit sexy keeps you inside and do you have a fantasy about rain no I't, but that leads us into today's topic of sexuality and
1:08.2	fantasy in the relationship. And we welcome Jean-Palettett, what a sexy name that is, she is an intimacy,
1:17.8	educator, coach, and author of living an orgasmic life, heal yourself,
1:23.5	and awaken your pleasure.
1:25.4	And she has a really cool story that she shares
1:28.0	of how she was in a sexist relationship.
1:30.7	I'll let you listen to her, explain that in the beginning of our interview.
1:36.0	That has led her to the work that she does.
1:37.8	And we talk about understanding your fantasies, sharing them with your partners, among many other things.
1:45.8	And as you can imagine, this is going to greatly improve the intimacy in relationship, your
1:51.3	sex life, and you are just going to be better off for it.
1:55.0	And toward the beginning of the interview, we talk about how important it is to just start
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