178: Singled Out in a Couple’s World featuring Christa Smith
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Havilah Cunnington
4.9 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 21 July 2021
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
Always a bridesmaid and never a bride? Ever feel advertised as the token single girl who everyone is trying to marry off? Christa Smith knows how you feel. There is a constant message of: you need to be in a relationship. And that singleness is a curse. That is not Godly, and not Truth. Being single is not a bad thing. A journey of singleness is an invitation to truly trust God with your life. Do not settle for a relationship that is anything less than God’s best, which will always be first and foremost: HIM. Learn what will help shift your perspective from a place of waiting to a place of contentment. Hear about what specific tips Christa has for you in your season of waiting and find out WHY your single years are not ‘filler years’ until you get married. Shift your perspective from waiting to be chosen to a place of a God-focused, empowered place of CHOOSING. Healed and whole marriage doesn’t happen unless you are actively chasing being healed and whole as a single person. Listen in as Christa brings the fire as she shares the top keys to lean in and maximize the power of your singleness. “Look to the future but don’t forfeit the present of what God is doing now.” - Christa Smith
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hey everybody, Christa Smith here. |
| 0:05.3 | I am so excited. |
| 0:07.4 | This is a podcast takeover thanks to Havela trusting me with this segment and I'm so excited |
| 0:12.8 | to be with the truth to table community. |
| 0:14.6 | It is such an honor. |
| 0:16.5 | Today I'm going to be talking to you about singled out in a couple's world. |
| 0:20.0 | I am passionate about the topics of singleness and what it is to be singled, to be an empowered |
| 0:25.2 | single and I'm passionate about it because I've lived it. |
| 0:28.8 | For some of you that don't know my story, I don't know if you heard the last podcast |
| 0:32.6 | that Havela and I did together but I shared a bit of my story but just a simple recap. |
| 0:37.5 | You know I didn't get married until I was 39 years old and I ended up walking out the |
| 0:41.2 | journey of singleness from 19 years old until I got married which was 39 years old, three |
| 0:46.3 | months before I turned 40 and I want you to know just like God wrote my story, I believe |
| 0:51.2 | God is writing your story. |
| 0:53.0 | Today I want to break down what does that look like to walk a life from shifting from waiting |
| 0:57.8 | for God to bring your husband to actually begin to live your life. |
| 1:01.6 | I really want to hit the topic of removing the pause button from your life and allowing |
| 1:06.4 | God to write a story through you that one that you may be never even dreamed of but |
| 1:11.8 | it's even better than you hope for. |
| 1:13.9 | And I just want to share a little bit about myself so you can get to know me a little |
| 1:16.9 | bit better before we dive in and kind of break down some lessons that I learned in my personal |
| 1:21.6 | walk and my personal journey in hopes to encourage you in yours. |
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