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Delight Your Marriage

175-Body P4: Honor Your Ressa

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Health & Fitness

4.7589 Ratings

🗓️ 23 January 2018

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Embodying your Sexuality P1 & P2, Episode 160 & Episode 161.

"Save sex for marriage". A wise piece of advice. But because I didn't learn anything about it's value, I just assumed it was nasty. 

But I never learned about my Ressa. Why your Ressa needed to be reframed and renamed:  Ressa = Receiving him into your Essence 

(Feel free to keep the name you feel most comfortable with. However, I don't feel comfortable using the words publicly on this show, that to me either evoke negative/pornographic connotations or are medical terms that don't include all the areas and don't capture the radiance of your essence.) 

We as Christian women often don't respect it or honor it as wonderful good. 

A lot of negative and embarrassing things happened while learning how to grow up with a Ressa. You may have a negative view of it just because of the way you grew up.

  • Episode 110 Luke Gilkerson how to raise healthy sexual kids.

 

Is it awkward to consider God coming into the room with your husband and you making love? He's not surprised.

God made it all. He made it to be filled with blood and become sensitive when its touched. 

Embracing the fullness of your Ressa is foundational for you to walk in pleasure in your intimacy. For you to relax and receive him into your essence. Next week builds upon this one, so be sure to do your homework! 

 

176-Body P5: Value Touch

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring

0:08.1

wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage.

0:13.9

Here's your host, Bella Rose.

0:19.6

Okay, welcome back. Thank you so much for joining. If this is your first time with the show,

0:25.6

you are in for a treat. We talk about marriage. I often interview wives about their just journeys,

0:35.3

things that they've had challenges with and what they've learned. And a lot of

0:39.6

it is about sexuality, is a lot about physical intimacy in your marriage because that's so

0:45.3

important to a vital and wonderful unity that I believe God really desires for you and your husband.

0:57.0

So we're in the middle of our series about body, body image, food issues, all that stuff.

1:03.1

It really goes all together and it affects your sexuality because the greater acceptance you have of your body, the more you're going to enjoy sex,

1:15.1

the more you're going to relax, the more that you're going to be present because you're not

1:19.4

thinking, oh my gosh, I've got a suck in or, you know, I can't wear that in front of him.

1:24.3

My, you know, this part that I hate is showing. But instead, if you become

1:31.8

free with who you are and you become free with everything that your body is, you're going to like it

1:41.4

more. You're going to start to be able to focus on what is pleasurable instead of what you look like.

1:50.2

So yeah, this is cool.

1:51.5

So I have asked a few times throughout this series that you would actually do the series in order

1:57.3

because it really builds on each other.

1:59.8

And if you want to make significant changes in

2:04.5

your life around the way you think about your body and present your body in your marriage and

2:10.1

food and all those things, I think they all connect. I encourage you to take the time and walk with me in this

2:20.3

week by week. We've got a few more sessions of the series. So yeah, start from the beginning and go with

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