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Earn Your Happy

174: Allowing Yourself to Process is the First Step in Helping Others

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 12 October 2017

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

With all of the recent events happening in the world between natural disasters, attacks and the loss of many lives, I’ve been asked how one should feel about these events. I’ve held back on responding because honestly, I didn’t know how I felt. I hadn’t even begun to process my feelings yet. But I do know that if we’re living in fear, it does nothing for the world. “When you are in fear, you are not in power.” So how do you take that power back? First, process your feelings – don’t pass them over. Heal yourself so you can spread love and light to others. Talk to someone, whether it’s a counselor, going to a trauma center or a dear friend who you know holds that space for you. Just be sure to give yourself the grace and space to process. Once you’ve healed, be sure to keep that love and light in your life by surrounding yourself with those who allow you to do the same. “Our environments reflect the results we get back in our minds.” We know that if we stay connected to these groups or tribes we can nip fear and powerlessness in the bud and step into our power. “When we put loving energy out it will be reflected to us in a bigger way in our lives.”   In This Episode You Will Learn: Why it’s important to process our feelings How to take back your power when you feel powerless Why we must join groups or tribes that are rooted in love and light  Resources:   The Bliss Project 2018 March 2-4, 2019 | Newport Beach, CA TheBlissProject.info Checkout my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Earn Your Happy Podcast.

0:11.8

I'm Lori Harder, founder of the Bliss Project 3 Time Fitness World Champion Fitness

0:16.7

Expert and Cover Model turned self-love junky lifestyle entrepreneur and author.

0:23.4

Each week I'll bring you a guest or a thought that will help you bust through your fears,

0:27.6

connect to your soul and get focused and clear so you can elevate your life, business

0:33.2

and relationships.

0:35.1

We don't wait until we're ready for someone to tell us we're good enough, we take what

0:39.6

we want and we annoy ourselves.

0:43.2

Get ready to earn, own, and unapologetically rock your happiness every single day.

0:51.5

Are you with me?

0:52.8

Here we go.

0:58.6

Welcome back to the Earn Your Happy Podcast and it is time for another quickie because

1:03.2

there's always time to fit in inspiration.

1:07.0

And you guys, I just want to say thank you so much for always tuning in and always listening

1:12.4

because you guys are quickly becoming some of my favorite people to connect with and

1:18.2

it's so great to see all of you on your journeys and just hearing about exactly what you're

1:24.5

going through and your takeaways from the podcast because I can tell you that we are all

1:30.4

the same.

1:31.4

We are all at some level going through or thinking the same thing.

1:37.0

So it's so freeing to know when we are all sharing the same ideas and the same feelings.

1:42.0

It really is beautiful.

1:43.0

I know Brunei Brown says, shame cannot exist when shared, right?

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