Oh, I'm your host, Ms. Kevin Stage, and I'm joined by my husband, Enco host.

The Kevin Stage.

We are a podcast where we talk about life love and the pursuit of happy

us. And when you guys are listening to this, hopefully I will be on vacation somewhere, not working.

I was just telling someone like on my way here, actually, that being an entrepreneur and

lining yourself up, squaring yourself away, to go on vacation is some of the most exhausting

work and time of the year that no one talks about. It is so much to line up. I'm so tired.

I'm so tired. I got a brand deal yesterday. I think I actually signed up for it, but he's got to

send it to me quick. And I'm like the only way to do that because it's due while we're on vacation.

I'm like, I have to do that between now and Thursday. That's my only time.

I need to do it between now and Thursday. So I need you to send everything over to me because if it's

due while I am on vacation, there's no guarantee that I'll actually be, you don't send me

product to St. Lucia, probably not like no one talks about people talk about this is a rant.

And I apologize, but the first question is talking about kind of string dynamics. So that's

where kind of what brought into this little situation that we're in. No one talks about people see

entrepreneurship as a lot of flexibility. And it is, I want to be clear about that. It really is a ton of

flexibility of flexibility, but there's also not a lot of flexibility. Like there is flexibility,

but at the same time, there really is not because you have commitments and deadlines that you have to

meet that if you don't, you don't eat, you don't make money. I'm not at that point.

So everything I do, it makes a difference. I told someone the other day that my definition of

success, and I think I actually heard this from someone I just don't remember where, but my definition of

success is being able to say no without consequence. And I'm just not there yet. Every no matters,

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