173 – Coaching Sessions Pt. 1: Six Human Needs
Porn Free Radio
Matt Dobschuetz
4.8 • 677 Ratings
🗓️ 26 September 2018
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
After a relapse have you ever wondered. "why did I do that?"
Regardless of who we are we are all driven to meet six human needs.
The first four needs show up commonly in our relapses and struggles. The last two needs emerge in our healthy recovery.
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| 0:00.0 | Is this thing on? |
| 0:01.9 | Porn Free Radio, episode 173. |
| 0:05.5 | In the next three episodes, I'm going to do a special series called the coaching sessions. |
| 0:10.2 | You know, as a coach, when I work with guys one-on-one or in Rev Group coaching, I have two |
| 0:14.9 | objectives. |
| 0:15.9 | One, I always want to improve the client's condition. |
| 0:21.1 | You know, wherever you're at in this journey, I want you to get farther along. |
| 0:25.5 | If you've been porn free for a couple years, I want you to get more out of your recovery. |
| 0:30.4 | I want to get more fulfillment, more growth in your life. |
| 0:34.0 | If you just relapse last night, I want you to get your plan stronger. I want to figure out what |
| 0:39.5 | happened and I want you to get stronger. I want to improve your condition. The second thing I want to |
| 0:45.9 | see happen is I want to engage your best thinking. This isn't just about my ideas or what worked |
| 0:53.6 | in my experience. I want to find out what your ideas or what worked in my experience. |
| 0:54.7 | I want to find out what your ideas are. |
| 0:57.8 | I want to engage you to really think through and start solving the challenges and threats that you have. |
| 1:05.8 | A lot of times people will ask me about a tool like a consequence or they'll ask me about what to do in a situation. |
| 1:13.3 | And deep down, they have an idea. |
| 1:16.5 | Deep down, they've kind of even thought of something that might motivate them. |
| 1:21.5 | But for some reason, they want me to come up with the idea or they want to be validated by me. |
| 1:27.7 | And what I really want to do is help engage your best thinking. |
| 1:32.2 | So over the next couple of episodes, I'm going to put you in the client seat, basically. |
| 1:37.8 | We're going to pretend like we're sitting on the couch and I'm going to walk through some |
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