You can't stick your head in the sand.

I mean, the things that we talk about in a regular basis are grim in a lot of ways.

They're beautiful, but they're grim.

But the repeat, the message that's on repeat is that life is temporary.

There is beauty here, but you've got to look deeper than the skin, deeper than the surface.

You're looking, you're finding beauty only in the shadow.

And you can't fully embrace a shadow.

You can't feed a shadow when it's hungry, right?

You can't enjoy the shadow world.

We're saying go deeper to the subtle and there's something

actually very tangible so i don't know if there's exactly what carl young was saying in his quote

maybe it was more about um you know you got to admit you're an alcoholic before you can change

you're an alcoholic maybe it was that no i i don't think it's so much like necessarily such a external thing as being an alcoholic,

but it's like internally that what you don't face in life, the inner fears, the attachments,

they don't disappear.

And his point is that they start running your life from behind.

And we call it fate, oh, this is just the, this is the world, this is my nature, this

is how things are.

But actually, that it's, if you you would you're not dealing with it you're

not stepping up and dealing with it so like what what um they don't to is doing let's an example

well let's take death here here's one about death right we all know that we are very vulnerable, but we push it to the back

and we don't process it. And then just like you're saying, you know, when you see someone

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