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Tea with Queen and J.

#172 No Wig Shall Hold Me Down

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.9768 Ratings

🗓️ 18 September 2018

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Are Black British actors “taking” Black American roles or is white supremacy just doing what it do? Black trans women are being killed left and right and the media is acting like it’s their fault. And we knew Janet Jackson was blacklisted but do you know the white man’s name who did it? It’s never a conspiracy, always a whole ass white man fvcking with whole ass Black people. This week’s hot list: J. isn’t using her feelings journal for her mental health, but you should. Listen to Marsha’s Plate podcast and stop being corny. Queen is queer ya’ll. Trans women are desired, loved, and not studying your crusty, stankin ass. There might be a serial killer in Jacksonville, Florida. Does anybody care tho? We’re getting a Harriet Tubman movie with Cynthia Erivo! Maybe we should be excited, or maybe we should just fight. If Janet Jackson can’t live, then who can? And Stop. Killing. Trans. Women. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj PAY BLACK WOMEN Check Nicole Mebane’s jewelry & lifestyle brand Ultraviolet NYC: https://ultraviolet.nyc/ Instagram: @ultravioletnyc @nicole_elise NOTES & EXTRA TEA Check out Queen’s appearance on Rosé On The Reg podcast! https://soundcloud.com/roseonthereg/episode-7-its-hella-sexual-up-in-here Damson Idris (Snowfall actor) on Jimmy Kimmel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XROT4CvpYb8 GLAAD's Doubly Victimized: Reporting on Transgender Victims of Crime: https://www.glaad.org/publications/transgendervictimsofcrime GLAAD's Media Reference Guide for a glossary of terms and best practices for fairly and accurately covering transgender stories: https://www.glaad.org/reference Mic.com's Unerased: Counting Transgender Lives - a comprehensive and interactive database looking at transgender murders since 2010: https://mic.com/unerased This week’s closing clip features Diamond Stylz tribute to Tea with Queen and J. on Marsha’s Plate podcast! Be sure to check out Marsha’s Plate podcast! https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/tracks Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/ Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/ Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

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0:00.0

This week on Tea with Queen and Jay, are black British actors, quote unquote, taking black American roles or is white supremacy just doing what to do?

0:08.5

Black trans women are being killed left and right and the media is acting like it's their fault.

0:13.0

And we knew Janet Jackson was blacklisted.

0:15.5

But do you know the white man's name who did it?

0:17.5

It's never a conspiracy, always a whole ass white man fucking with whole ass black

0:21.5

people it's tea with queen and j people drink up okay we're ready. All righty, ready. What's up? Nothing much. How you doing? I'm okay. I'm okay. I did not write in my feelings journal. Why did you not do that shit? And I met to check on it. I really hate doing it. And I met to check on you and I was like, she's grown. I thought about it.

0:54.6

I really do hate doing it. When I do it and like it's done, it's fine and it's helpful. But I really hate doing it. I knew I should have. And I was like she grown. Yeah. I don't like talking about my feelings. But you talk about them all the time here on the show. It's important that I know it's important that I do it, but I don't like to do it.

0:53.9

I don't like to do it.

0:54.7

And so writing them to myself, I didn't want to do that either. I'm always with myself, but it is helpful. I just didn't do it. Writing them is different than thinking about them in your head because you're getting it out. That is the purpose. I know know i just don't like doing it but you do do

1:28.9

do it like you get it out like you come on the show and you get it out which is great right so i'm saying

1:33.7

that you do actively find ways to get it out but that's because i'm gonna be here i'm gonna be on the

1:39.1

mic anyway you know like writing i have to stop whatever i'm doing and i have to like make the intention

1:46.1

to write in my feelings journal anyway and i think that's the purpose of the feeling feeling

1:51.1

journal to intentionally take time for yourself to address your feelings welcome to tea with

1:58.5

queen and jay we are two womenist race nerds talking shit over tea,

2:03.5

dismantling white supremacist patriarchal capitalism one episode at a time. I'm Queen. I'm Jay and this is

2:11.0

Tea with Queen and Jay. And this is Tea with Queen and Jay. Elle. Hey. That was in the middle.

2:16.3

What? Yours. You know how you was going to do?

2:18.2

Oh, you think it was a little higher? No, it was a little higher, but it wasn't high. It was like in the middle. Got it, got it, got it, got it. I'm going to be listening to them now. Mine's always going to be, you know. Analyzing, scrutinizing, that's fair. That's cool. If you would like to follow the conversation being had on this podcast, you can do so by using our hashtag hashtag T with QJ. You did it on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram stories. We love when you use it. We retweet it. We like that. And you can find other tea friends who listen to this show by using that hashtag. You can also use the hashtag pod in.

2:52.9

And that allows other people on that hashtag to find tea with Queenie J.

2:56.1

So use the hashtag pod in also.

2:58.8

Yes.

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