This is Hello Freedom and I'm your host Terry Cole.

For almost two decades I've been a licensed psychotherapist and transformation coach and on this show I will bring you

simple strategies based on practical psychology, inspiring expert interviews and my own insights

and observations from my time on the front lines of the fascinating worlds of entertainment,

empowerment, and mental health.

Now let's get going this week's episode. I'm so psyched that you

guys are here hanging out with me. As you know, Real Love Revolution season is in full swing, so I'm talking

about love. And this week I'm talking about how you can not get lost in your relationship. I had a lot of people write emails to me telling

me that they feel like every time they get into a relationship, they lose their own identity.

Their identity becomes very entangled or connected to the person

that they're in a relationship with.

So let's talk about how you cannot have that happen and why, right?

Because really we want to talk about why don't we want that to happen?

And for those of you, if you haven't, I just want to make a quick announcement.

The Real Revolution Facebook Group is open for women, it's a free group.

I'm starting my Wednesday wisdom,

talking all about love, relationship, sex, passion,

you don't want to miss it,

so if you haven't done it, go to Facebook and find us

and we would love to have you in our crew.

Okay, moving on to this.

So first of all, we have to look at history again.

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