#17 Happiness - The Benefits to Us of Being Kind, Honest, & Loving Toward Others
Happiness Podcast
Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.
4.5 • 955 Ratings
🗓️ 6 September 2011
⏱️ 11 minutes
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Why our actions towards others effect our happiness. To learn more about the Happiness Podcast, go to: http://www.HappinessPodcast.org To explore Dr. Puff's Corporate Workshops, go to: http://www.SuccessBeyondYourImagination.com
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| 0:00.0 | You're going to. Welcome to the happiness podcast. I'm Dr. Robert Puff. A few days ago when I was driving I needed a little bit of gas so I pulled over and got some gas at a local gas station. I've been there before but only a few times. I went to the counter and gave the man $20, then I went out and poured my gas. |
| 0:36.0 | When it was over, I looked and I noticed that I had been given $30 worth of gas instead of 20. |
| 0:42.0 | So I went back inside, handed the guy a $10 bill, and explained |
| 0:46.4 | to him that I owed him $10 because he had given me $10 worth of extra gas. He looked |
| 0:51.6 | very surprised and thanked me profusely and as I was driving away I thought |
| 0:57.0 | hmm why was he so surprised for me walking in and giving him that extra ten dollars and then I thought why did I do that and that's what this week's |
| 1:06.9 | podcast is about what are the benefits of being kind loving and honest with |
| 1:12.4 | other people are there any benefits to doing that? |
| 1:16.1 | And I'm not going to take the normal route you probably heard, like, well, God's looking |
| 1:20.2 | over your shoulder, or you ought to do that because your parents told you you |
| 1:24.4 | ought to you know all the different things that are out there telling us we ought to |
| 1:28.0 | do that. I wasn't doing that for those reasons at all. For me it's actually very simple. What would I want to have |
| 1:35.3 | happen if the rolls were reversed? Let me repeat that. What would I want to |
| 1:40.4 | have happened if the rolls were reversed? Let's say I'm working at that gas station. |
| 1:45.9 | I'm probably making minimum wage, and I sure didn't mean to give that guy an extra $10 worth |
| 1:51.8 | of gas. |
| 1:53.0 | And if he hadn't come back in and given me that $10, |
| 1:56.0 | I might have gotten in big trouble. |
| 1:58.0 | Because that's a lot of money, and I could lose my job. |
| 2:02.0 | And if I lost my job, it's hard getting another job in this |
| 2:05.3 | economy so I'm sure I'm glad he came back and gave me that $10. |
| 2:11.3 | And after this example I just gave, it probably makes sense to treat others as I would like to be treated. |
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